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Archived questions from: 30 August, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I think my guy likes his ex still. I want to break up with him but I dont think he's taking me seriously??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - hi stright to the point am i his rebound??? well ive been with my man for a year and a few months and well, he went thru a bad break up with his gf of like 9 months and she treated him real bad, i knew her. me and him where friends but i kn...

I don't want to have to choose because I need them both in my life, but I really can't take any more of this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My mum hates my boyfriend so much that she even used an old mobile to text him so it looked like he was cheating, I know because I knew the number was my brother's old number from his first phone. She's always talking bad about him and calls him all ...

My 17 yr old boyfriend doesn't take me anywhere and says because I'm 15 he didn't think I would want to go anywhere. Was I right to take offense?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - my 17 Yr old boyfriend never takes me anywhere. earlier i confronted him about this and he said "well your only 15, i didnt think you'd want to go anywhere" i took offence by this and he stormed off to bed when i expressed this. was i right to take ...

I've recently got together with my uncles best friend! But he is 40, I am 23 and he now wants to cool it a bit. I dont want to lose him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone, I am after a bit of advice regarding a new relationship i have started with an older man. I am 23 and my partner is 40, we met a while ago and have seen each other on occasion at my relative's house(he is my uncle's best friend!)I h...

I'm pregnant by the guy I've been having an affair with! I dont need judging, I just need some advice...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5555 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for years. Before you judge me you don't have to live my life and there is a lot of screwed up stuff in my marriage. I am married and scared to death of my husband. I found out that I am pregnant and don't know what to ...

I dont seem to have goals in life. I'm in a long distance relationship and she's starting to annoy me a bit. Whats happening???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - i need some help! first of all i wanted to know how to not feel so insecure about myself and hav a vision in my life to achieve a goal? i dnt hava vision i cnt seem myself going any where, even tho i study and wnt a degree i jus have no vision to i ...

He's so controlling towards me all the time.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months coming to 10 months, since we've been together we have so many arguments and hes so possessive, he always tells me what I can and can't do, he's stopped me from seeing my friends even at work I'm not allowed ...

My fiance cheated and she's pregnant. He told her in front of me that he doesn't love her but will I ever trust him again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I found out a few months ago that my Fiance had been cheating on me for 2years and the girl is now pregnant. He told her infront of me that he doesnt love her and has always loved me but couldnt seem to get rid of her. Will i ever be able to trust ...

I helped a mate out when they split from their partner. Now they're interested in me but I'm married! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I'm in a predicament partially of my own making and I don't know the way out. I'm pretty certain I'm confused. I've been married/involved for the past decade. A friend of mine has been going through some rough times with his relationship of ...

We are seperated because i dont feel I love him anymore. Have I done the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I have been married for 1 year and I have off and on felt that I was not in love with my husband. I always tried to push the thoughts off and not think about them because he is so good to me. Finally, I started to have panic attacks (they were ...

My wife has been emotional since coming back from a school trip. She's a teacher. How can I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Hi i've been happily married to my wife for 7 yrs now, she works in a school(teacher) and has recently come back off this adventure holiday type thing that is arranged for 1 week in the summer holidays, there was her and about 6 more teachers ...

Drinking can make my guy go into a rage. I've met someone nice but dont know who to be with???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi there, I've got myself into a bit of a dilemma. Basically I have been with my boyfriend for nearly six years however in the beginning of the relationship he was very wild. He used to become violent when drinking, he cheated on me, took drugs. T...

Do you think I should bother with her or do you think she doesn't want to know? I'm 44 she's 22.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Please help I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now, I do have a past, people have been telling her things about me. Lately she's always busy or she says she has a lot on, do you think I should bother with her or do you think she doesn'...

My parters brother in law keeps coming on to her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Hello, I sincerely hope you can help as i do not know if i am right to be concerned here....my partners brother in law keeps 'coming on to her' he has once grabbed her and kissed her and on another occasion entered her bedroom while she was al...

He is wonderful when we are together, but a jerk when we are apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - hey aunts. hrmm, i've written quite a few posts within the past few weeks. i'll give u the detailed story... i was with my boyfriend for 8 months and we broke up for 2 months with ALOT of troubles within that two months he, had other girls o...

I've been with him 4 yrs but now he's started disrespecting me. What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been with my bf for4 yrs, sex was great till he started calling me names, disrepecting me.Just verybally abusing me to the point that I more sad and now I question myself of how good of a person I am, and what he thinks of me. Beca...

He said we would get married then I caught him with a girl in his bedroom. It's hurt so much. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - i am in a relationship with this guy who always tells me he loves me so much. we have been in this relationship for two years now. i also love him so much. He has gone to the extent of introducing me to all his family members. ...

Torn between two lovers...who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I like two amazing guys and I dont know what to do. The first guy B, is very attractive, sweet, caring, loving, is always there when i need him and makes me the center of his world.B is also very clingy and is everything opposite of myself. The seco...

Why do guys eye up other women? I do so much for his family but he doesn't seem to care about mine.Is there something wrong with our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4889 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Do i deserve to be treated this way? i am a mother of 4 children...going on 5 children. my common-law husband and i have been together for 11 years. he has been great with the kids, chores around the house, and our sex life is fine.but then problem ...

He was neglecting me so I ended it. I wanted him to chase me but he now says he needs time. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi I cant believe I am writing this, but I have really reached the bottom of the barrel. Its simple I started dating a guy that chased me for a very very very long time and he did everything write from the beginning. We dates for three monhts a...

He treats me bad and I feel i should leave. I need some strength...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Thank you for you support through your advice. I have been with the guy am talking about for almost 4 years. We moved for 1 and half year and without any reason he left me. I never went into any relationship again because I loved him. After 3 ...

She's admitted she's having an affair but how do i trust her now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - I have just found out that my wife is having an affair and she admits she is having sex with the guy.she says it is now over because i have found out ,what shall i do to beleive her because she will not tell me who the guy is even if it breaks our ...

I think he's addicted to the gym. It bothers me. Am I being selfish???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - hi, i have been with my bfriend for 1 year we live toghether and are happy, the thing is he is always at the gym! we both work fulltime, he goes to the gym after work and on saturdays, he finishs work at 5pm and doesnt get home until 8.30ish pm! he ...

My guy doesn't seem interested anymore. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi there, well could anyone help me. Ive been with this bloke for 5 months now and yeah i really like him, but recently hes been messing with ma head. Two weeks ago we had a big arguement over another girl (i was drunk) well after that ngt i text...

My boyfriend seems to be ignoring me and saying I'm harassing him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I have sent sms msgs to my fiancee and he has not replied saying he is busy always supposedly in meetings (like 12hrs for 4 days in a row) (which i find impssible to believe). later he replies saying "this is harassment!" Someone who says somethi...

Why do I allow myself to go back to a cheating woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - i had this xgirlfriend(very pretty) who is again showing sign of interest in me, she says that she is not having an afair with anyone, but i know from a very good source that she is having sex with a guy, i will be seeing her very soon, is there ...

I lied to her and now she is ignoring me. What can I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Hey everybody plzz help me. i cant live without her but she just left me and went away. I told a lie to her and she got it frm my frends gurlfriend. from that day she is ignoring, but is that right? I just lied to her because it was good for her but ...

He got back with his ex but he calls and texts me every day. What is he playing at?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I had been seeing this lad for 2 months in which time he admitted he had strong feelings for me and phoned and texted me everyday. A month ago he told me that his ex had been back in touch and that she wanted to give their relationship another go, ...

I love him with all my heart but a part of me wants to try new things.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I started dating my boyfriend in 6th grade. (I know that's young). We dated for 2 years and then broke up for a year and neither of us dated anyone else. when I was in 8th and him in 9th. We got back together last year and have been together for ...

How do I overcome jealousy? And why am I such a jealous girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. He is great, he has never cheated on me and I'm positive he never will because he has such good morals and high standards with how to treat women. Knowing this I do not understand why I am such a ...

Are we at the end of the road?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I need help. Me and my partner have been together for 6.5 years, but i need to know if it is normal for a man to cause arguments everyday and for me to fight for any attention. i trully love him but need to know are we at the end of the road?...

My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me!

This question has 76 answers - newest was posted 2685 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me! Two weeks ago my husband received a call from someone at 11:30pm on a weekend. He didn't pick up, but someone had apparently left a message and upon asking him ...

Just because it wasn't physical, doesn't mean it wasn't bad! Now he acts Mr Nice, how to deal with the feelings of wanting to get back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago. My reasons for breaking up with him was because he was emotionaly abusive and seemed to have a narcissistic personality. At first I didnt want to break up with him because despite how badly he treated me, he could ...

I've had enough! My 2 children are confused, our bank is drained, and my brain is strained...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We have 2 young children together, and he has a 12 year old from a previous relationship. The "Baby's Momma Drama" is an ongoing thing, IN and OUT of court for numerous FALSE allegations, a SEVERE ...

I felt jealous, because I'd consider a date this invitation to lunch! Am I overreacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6091 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Firstly, thanks for reading my question and would really appreciate any advices. I am quite confused at moment, do not know what to do. I am having relationship with this guy for almost 2 years and been living together. And before this, I had never ...

I was talking to him and he had to go, all he said was night and didn't say I love you or anything. I'm upset and don't know if I should mention this to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - HELP ME PLEASE I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DOO ! ! ! I went away for a week not seeing my boyfriend. I've come back and things have gone okay, up till the other night at a party he was all flirty with all the other girls especially my best frien...

Friends have told me to go to a prostitute in compensation for my high sex drive! Is it right, since I have a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - My urge for sex has abnormaly gone so crazy that even my girlfriend just can't take it all the time. Some friends have told me to try out prostitutes to save my relationship. Do you think it's right?...

The engagement ring is beautiful, but not the one I envisioned wearing for the rest of life; worried he'd be hurt if I want to change it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6092 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months recently proposed. After discussing, we decided to wait on the engagement because it seemed too early. I'm very much in love with him, but I wanted more time before that kind of commitment. Our relationship is ...