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Archived questions from: 7 August, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He promises that he'll divorce her, but he never does!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - Hello, My bf and i have dated for the past 4 years. He is legally married with a kid. His "wife" is in Europe. They have been separated even before our relationship (she had to go back to Sweden and he stayed in Germany). He moved to US and thats ...

He seems to change his feelings about me constantly! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 520 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, Hello Everyone!! Well here's my problem: Im 17 years old and my boy friend is 20 years old We have been together for abit over a year now We have been best friends for a long time for almost 2 and a half years. but when ...

My bf and I have serious trust issues. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - Hello, Can someone please help with my problems... My bf and I have been together for the past 3 and a half years. I could never really trust him because even at the beginning of our relationship, before we were so close, he lied about small stuf...

My boyfriend is pulling the double-standard! Is it just an excuse to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I just moved in with my boyfriend of 9 months and while I was at work one day he went through my "memory box" that i kept while i was in HS. It had somethings in it about my ex boyfriends like who i kissed, who i didnt, and so on...sil...

What should I do about my boyfriend's friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I fancy my boyfriend ´s good friend. I dont like my boyfriend that much coz he doesnt pay attantion to me as he used to. I want to get closer to his friend but the problem is obvious. Shall i forget about it?...

After one night of smothering me with attention, my boyfriend hasn't contacted me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - Hey. On my 15th birthday my boyfriend was all over me and got really close to me and i can't say i didn't like it cause i did but the following mornin he left really early but said a few things that made me think he regreted his behavior. He pays me ...

He tells me he just wants to be friends, after seeing me for 5 months!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - Hello, I'll try to make this as short as possible. I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months now. We have been progressing slowly, but still progressing. We have talked about how we feel about each other, and the all of a sudden he tells me...

We got engaged about 3 months ago and everything has gone down hill from then on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (M) - I have been with my partner now for 20 years and I have not regretted one minute of it. We got engaged about 3 months ago and everything has gone down hill from then on, she says I accuse her of seeing other men when I have only done this once. I ...

Yes, it is very nice that he wanted to buy that for me but I don't agree with where he looked or what he look at.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - Hello everyone, I am curious if anybody else would have the same problem or if it is somehow reasonable that I thought this: My boyfriend and I had a conversation about web sites we visit (to see if we go to any porn sites etc). He said that he...

Is this a bad idea? Getting too close with Jess? Letting our friendship be a little more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 518 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - So, I was just thinking about my relationship of 2 and a half years that just ended about two months ago. Well there was a problem with one of my ex friends.. I have written about it in here before so read if you like. Well I honestly felt deeply ...

For the first time at 28 I gave it up, I had sex with him , lost my virginity to him and now he not talking to me at all!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a whole year, within that year we went through some rough times where he cheated a couple of times and then he stopped and silly me I remained in the relationship because all along I thought I was the problem because ...

I feel like a stuck record about this but it's really bugging me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - Hi I feel like a stuck record about this but it's really bugging me! I split with someone just over a month ago. Was a year long nightmare relationship. All is good, I can't stand the bloke. He rang Friday night trying to explain things 'cuz he l...

If he's like this now how will he be after we're married?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - my fiance is doing my head in. We are getting married in 3 weeks time, and there is still lots to do, and he just isn't doing anything!! I feel like I have done almost everything, and the things I ask him to do I end up doing myself anyway because ...

We're getting married! But all of a sudden, I'm scared that I am making a huge mistake.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I'm due to be married in a few weeks time. Thing is, I don't know if I'm doing the right thing!! I really thought it was what I wanted, at first when he proposed out of the blue I was rather taken aback, and I did say yes because I couldnt exactly ...

He doesnt turn me on anymore and I wonder if I am still in love with him. I have feelings for another man.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I am having doubts about my relationship. We have been together for 6 years nearly and living together for 1 year. My boyfriend is the best anyone could ever wish for, he is kind and would do anything for me and I know he loves me so much but lately ...

He said that he couldn't go out, but I think he's making up excuses!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - Yesterday, i texted my crush (he likes me, too, he told me) that i wanted him to come to a movie with my friends and i. well two hours later (yeah ik!!) he finally texted back what time. So i told him then he said i have football. And i know he ...

I told my best friend that I have a crush on him and he said "well I'm not gay...what do you want me to do?" What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (M) - I have a problem!!...well I'm gay and I am madddly in love with my best friend...I've been knowing him since 05 and I've always had a little crush on him...when we got to sophmore year...we started hanging out every weekday...and thus we became best ...

Our first week together we talked about marriage and kids. Now it's been 7 months and he still hasn't said he loves me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - hi, im madly in love with my boyfriend of 7 months, when we got together i told him i was looking for a husband not just abit of fun, he was fine with this, our first weeks together we talked about our future, our wedding, our house, our children, ...

I'm moving half way around the world - should I carry on a relationship with my wife or my mistress?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (M) - This question is long because it's very complicated (even though I've simplified it quite a bit). Three years ago, I fell in love with a European girl and moved to Europe to be with her. I gave up a lot to make the move and it really was a blo...

I think our relationship has gone past being f*ck buddies. Do I say something to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - 5 months ago me and a guy I work with agreed to be f*ck buddies as we both didnt want anything serious, now its confusing, I thought a f*ck buddy was just sex now and again but lately he has been phoning and texting me loads, I have met his friends, ...

How do I handle my boyfriend's baby? Is the relationship worth going through this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend who I have been dating for four months and who I love has two young kids. The youngest is 8 month old. It is very hard for me to accept the baby for some reason. How do I handle being in this situation? And how do I know he is truly ...

How do I confront this yet again whithout him going in rages.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I've been with my partner for 5 years, in all that time he's been in touch with his ex wife. I've caught him out on many occasions texting other women, also I've found photos on his PC of other women. He promised me he would never do it again. I ...

Is she only trying to make me feel better? It's driving me mad thinking of her with some one else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

7 August 2007 (M) - Hello I have been with this girl for ages to cut a long story short I want to know if it's possible that if a girl isn't comfortable during sex with men that she doesn't get any feeling, my girlfriend says the lads who she was with before were one ...

Okay I know this is probably one of many common situations for a woman with small breasts, but I'd like some advice.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - Hello there! Okay I know this is probably one of many common situations for a woman with small breasts, but I'd like some advice. I have very low self esteem and my boyfriend knows how much I want to change myself. (Not for anyone, but myself). I ...

I don't want to split up with him but I don't know what to do, should I believe him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I had been going out with a lad for a few months when I found out he had been cheating on me. We split up for 6 months and then he asked me to go back out with him and that he was sorry for what he had done. I have now been going out with the sam...

I have just discovered that my boyfriend has signed up for a dating site...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I have just discovered that my boyfriend has signed up for a dating site, when I asked him why he just said it was to have a look, I find this strange, we are both in our 40s. I can't really understand why he would want to do this?...

He has told me straight why he has done it saying he doesn't let anyone close to him because he has been hurt before...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I found out that a lad who I have been texting and kissing has been having sex with a girl I know from the pub. When I asked him he admited it and just said that he is single but he wasnt trying to play me because he liked me. He asked me out on ...

Should I get back with my ex if he tells me he loves me and will make more effort this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for 1 year and 4 months before he dumped me saying he didn't love me anymore. This was about 3 months ago, we are still very good friends as I was not angry with him because he was honest with me about how he felt which is ...

He treats me like his cook and cleaner! I love him very much but just don't seem to be getting anything back...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 519 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - hi there i have been in a relationship for 2 yrs i met him as i had just split with my ex husband i have 2 children and he has 1 he is currently in the army and i only see him on weekends but when he comes home he totaly disregards me and it doesnt ...

How do I get passed the feelings I'm having?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

7 August 2007 (M) - How do I get passed the feelings I'm having? Everytime this one person gets mentioned (one of my girlfriend's exes, let's say Tim) I feel very low and get vivid imagages of the two of them together. This is due to my girlfriend who shared her past...

What should I do? She said she needs time to sort her head out but I haven't heard from her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (M) - What shall I do?? I was with a girl who had just come out of a realtionship then jumped straight in one with me now she's finished with me, saying she needs time to think. Now she doesn't talk to me, doesn't text, doesn't ring or nothing. I know ...

I do love and care for my partner but how can I be sure he is 'the one' if I want to sleep with other men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years. We are very close and share everything - we have lived together for 2 years. However, when it comes to sex, I never initiate it with him as it often hurts as he is quite large... I even dread ...

His friends take their girlfriends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is always going away with his mates for weekends every three or four weeks. Sometimes some of his mates take their girlfriends. When should I start putting my foot down and how do I talk to him about this and explain my feelings ...

Not sure my partner is over his ex... I sometimes feel as if he doesn't even like me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I'm 22 currently dating a man who has only had one relationship. He was with her for 5-6 years and they have a child together. So they have to stay in contact. I don't think he is over her. He never says "i love you" to me unless i say it first. I ...

Now i'm about to date someone new, she wants me back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

7 August 2007 (M) - ok listen this problem is starting to get annoying.... look i have made a huge mistake..... i am male of 15 but this happened when i was 13....a year and a half ago....anyway.... i like this woman alot and she liked me back.... well after awhile of ...

Do you think i deserve to be treated in this way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - please help!!! my boyfriend is starting to be very controlling, for instance he always wants me to do what he says, listen to him, leave him be when he doesnt want me around and on top of that he is so mean to me. He talks to me like I am a little ...

I have a really mean boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 522 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I have a really mean boyfriend. He keeps blaming me for everything. He's so paranoid and keeps calling me names and it's getting harder and harder to endure. He's really sweet when he's nice but he's really terrible on his bad days. And I ...

He said he was going to the bathroom but headed straight for the spare bed... why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - i met a guy on holidays 6 years ago we are both 20 and weve kept in touch since (with his mum mostly...men cant be bothered with pens and paper!) 2 weeks ago i went up to see him again...cutting the long story short the first 2 days were great we ...

He's been so darned Fussy since we got engaged!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 522 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - I just got engaged, and now he nitpicks over everything, does he want me to break it off?...

Unsure if the good outweighs the bad with my boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - Ok i feel bad for even doing this. I have been dating my boyfriend for over 2 and a half years but we have had our ups and downs. hes 3 years older than me and starting a full time job, while im still in college. we've gotten in huge fights before, ...

Feeling in a mess with my life...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - hi im in abit of a mess with my life, all my life i have been with men thinking they were kind caring men but they have never been they all have hurt me and beaten me. now im with a guy now and its complicated because at one point i used to have f...

Do you think he still loves and cares for me or do you think that he never did?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 521 days ago

7 August 2007 (F) - Do you think he really love me and care? right i am 16 years old. he is the same. i knew him for about 8 months and we wouldve been goin out for like 7 and a half. We been on and off. And he is the first guy i TRULY loved, and he really showed me...