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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Please helpI've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now, I do have a past, people have been telling her things about me. Lately she's always busy or she says she has a lot on, do you think I should bother with her or do you think she doesn't want to know. I'm 44 she's 22. Reply to this Question |
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (30 August 2007):
 She could really be busy and have a lot on as she says. Or the flip side of that is some busy bodies have told tales to her about you and she is brushing you off.
I really think the only option here is communication, ask her what the problem is.
At the end of the day she is 22 not 16, im sure she is not going to listen to people telling her things that she does not even know is true or not.
Give her the benefit of the doubt and talk to her.
All the best
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female
reader, tracyann +, writes (30 August 2007):
simple answer she is too young and not that interested so move on, if she wants you she will be there for you
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female
reader, spanna +, writes (30 August 2007):
 Has she suddenly stopped wanting to seee you? if so she may have heard something that she doesnt like. if it was me i would her what is wrong, if she says its something she has heard explain to her why you done whatever it is and explaint that you have now changed and if you want to see her you will fight for her. we like guys to fight for us in this respect we feel wanted.good luck
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female
reader, hlskitten + ♥, writes (30 August 2007):
 Hi
You haven't really given us a lot to go on there, so i wouldn't know if shes not interested at all or whether you shouldnt be bothered. But the age gap is irrelivant in my opinion.
And gossip should be too.
Unless she believes it all. Everyone has a past. We would be hard pushed to find someone that hasn't!
As long as its nothing majorly bad or illegal, its by the by. When you sy she has been told things, have you actually spoken to her about those things then?
C xxxxx
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