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Archived questions from: 29 August, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriends giving me the cold shoulder and i dont know why???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Hi folks my girlfriend came home from classes today kinda distant (or so it seemed) When I asked her about it, she didnt respond until later, phoning me to give me some cold shoulder sandwich. I overreacted, said how i didnt deserve that ou...

His family say i look like his ex wife from 13 yrs ago, he says he took 5 years to get over her and I dont want to be someone elses shadow!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Well I had a bf (he's 35, I'm 26) that I had been dating for about five months. We got along great and were very much inlove. When we were getting to know each other we had talked a little about our exes. He had told me that he had been married and ...

We have an age gap and his children dont approve. What to do???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I am 24 and my boyfriend is 51 with two teenage boys. This past weekend we both had said to eachother that we are 'forever'. Well last night his sons had sat him down and expressed how they do not approve of the age gap. Now for him and myself, we ...

He's a major flirt! It's very frustrating!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - What to do? Should I ask him to leave? We've been married for nearly twenty years and have two doting children. But you can bet that almost every holiday we have ends up in frustration and near separation, because of his prolonged eye-contact with a ...

My husband senses the closeness I have with my cousin. We are both married, should we pursue a relationship together?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I have been married twice. The first, was very short at a very young age. The second, is my current husband. We have been married and together between 5-10 years. We share several children. He has a child from a previous relationship and we ...

My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is ...

My girlfriend ended the relation as I went to a festival unaccompanied by her, now she regrets it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I have a problem with my Girlfriend of 4 years. I'm 21 now and we've been together for 4 years... We've had arguments before, but who hasn't... Our relationship was stressed by me going to university but we have managed to get throug...

My married life: lacking romance, lacking friendship and just plain lonely.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 458 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Ive been married 2 years and have a child who is nearly 1.My problem is that my husband doesnt want to spend time with me to take me out,He just stays at home,eats and uses the computer to do stupid research.He doesnt do anything romantic like bring ...

How do you re-program yourself to trust someone you love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - How do you re-program yourself to trust someone you love? I am seeing a wonderful guy but I have never trusted men easily. I've had a few knocks it's true, but my trust issues do not seem to be based entirely on past experiences or my childhood. ...

I moved in w/ my gf and her family. All I do is clean for them! My gf notices my attitude. What can I do about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hello all, I have a serious attitude problem. I have had one all of my life I think?....Atleast I've been this way to my mom and my brother for as far back as I can remember. My mom always tells me, you'll be lucky if someone actualyl stays with you...

I said I would move to her town, but I don't think I have the money! I am very afraid for our future, IF I even have one with her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Hello. I am just a normal guy, almost hitting 30, and looking for my better half. I have been in two serious relationships so far, never married, though. First of all, let me start by mentioning that I came to this country only about a year and...

My mother hasn't spoken to me in a month and has been telling my children lies!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - A liitle confused. My mother hasn't been speaking to me for over a month due to the fact that I went back to my ex who she doesn't like. Mind you I have two boys ages 12 and 6 who she has been putting stuff in their heads which I think is not right ...

Should i be concerned about my guy and this girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Okay what should I make of this? My b/f said he had to go out on a field trip with a female co-worker today. He had her come by our house and pick him up at 7:00 AM. This was a little weird, as he usually drives to work and employees take a field ...

I want to move in together and he doesn't. how do we get around this problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I want to move in together and he doesn't. My boyfriend and i have been together for about a year and 7 months. This is my first serious relationship. We both live in the same city but in different apartments. I spend about 3 quarters of my time at ...

I just want to know if I was wrong to ask my BF to leave for about and hour while she was there, or was he just being an inconsiderate jerk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I moved in together after being together for 10 months. I have yet to tell my mom. But it is not just me and him, one of my friends is there as well as my guys bro and his friend. The thing is, my mom thinks that I live with 4 ...

Partner of 11 years dumped me cause i'm fat and i've taken him back but i cant forget what he said. what should i do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - ok help my ex broke up with me said he dont love me. and im to fat. he moved out. we were together 11 yrs have 2 kids.but he only moved out for couple of wks then came back as he broke up with his new gf.but now his here sleeping in my bed and i ...

How can the man I love truely of done this to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Am so down and hurting. How can the man I have love truely do this to me. And for my stupidity and low self esteem, I couldn't break up with him. It hurts my somuch. I have tried to forgive him but I always remember and that is . I remember going...

Not sure if I'm making my bf happy...what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Am a mother of three..going on four. Am living with my boyfriend for 8 years..but been going out for 11 years. Not married. Still waiting for him to propose. Anyways he is 5'3 tall weight 170lbs and I'm 5'5 tall and weight 272lbs. I did all a mother ...

Girlfriend has bipolar and now wants nothing to do with us. what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 406 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - my girlfriend and i recently seperated after 2 half yrs.she suffers with bipolar.we laughed and talked for hours.her reasons for splitting are that i'm to blame for a bipolar incident that happened when we were on holiday in scotland.i can't ...

Every time I see something that reminds me of my ex girlfriend I break down into tears. Please help...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - My gf has just broken up with me and i'm not handling it very well. I feel as if i'm slipping into depression and nothing seems worth doing. I truly loved this girl and was convinced that i wanted to be with her for life. When I used to tell her ...

Caught genital herpes from a cold sore... now it has rocked my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I have been going out with my fella for nearly a year and a half. Early on in the relationship I contracted genital herpes from a cold sore. Needless to say this hit me quite hard, but my boyfriend stuck by me and did everything he could. He treated ...

He's baffling! He's loving one moment and not the next..what is he up to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I am 38 and divorced with 2 children Met a man 4 months ago who pursued me with great gusto. He is also divorced with 2 children and is working through his grief at having to share custody of his children. I have grown close to him. One week he is ...

My husband has been txting an ex from years ago. I'm not handling it well....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - My husband has been sending text messages to the girlfriend he was seeing before we met ten years ago. I found some of them yesterday. Up til then I thought we were happy and he was very loving and intimate with me. But in the text messages to her ...

I'm wondering if my guy is cheating with my friend..what do you think???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I think my boyfriend is cheating on me with an old old friend of mine. we've been together for about 2 years and he has cheated before (dont give me shit about it, we're all abit deluded when we really love someone...) thing is, i am not up for ...

I wanted a wife and she has never seen herself as anything other than a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I have been with my partner for 10 years, it has not been easy as I work away very often, leaving her with our 2 children. We seem to be always quarrelling about stupid things, mostly my insecurity in thinking she is giving out the wrong signals to ...

How can I show him I care through the phone? How can I tell him how I feel without a fight and help him understand??????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hello everyone, First to let you know a little about the situation, I've been in a relationship with my fiance for 2 years going on 3 years, engaged not too long ago, we're getting married in October. The thing is he's been 5 hours away by car...

I'm in the last stages of getting married and my parents don't like him. How can I get them to see him the way I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship for three years and on the verge of getting married. My boyfriend's parents approved but my parents are hesitant on the grounds that they aren't comfortable with my boyfriend for no apparent reason. What should I do? ...

Should I embrace my romantic feelings and wear my heart on my sleeve or should I try to hold back and keep myself a little guarded in case things don't work out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I've been seeing this guy I really like for about six weeks. We've known each other for years and it's the third summer in a row we've hooked up. This time, it feels more serious than ever before, and we've agreed to be exclusive and have a proper ...

How do I tell my parents the guy I'm seeing is 6 years older than I am? I'm 17.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Ok, so this guy is 23 and I'm 17... I'm ok with it, and he's ok with it. My parents? yea no, they don't even know we're dating. What makes it worse? He lives about an hour and a 1/2 aways drive from where I live, and I always have to make excuses to ...

Is it worth continuing to talk to her or should I just give up and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 years and she never introduce me to her parents. I kept asking her when and she keeps saying not now and making excuses and such. Early this year we broke up for no apparent reason. She was ...

What should I do if I have come to a stage were we dont talk, hold hands or anything besides trying my best to clean the house etc and none of it gets appreciated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I have never had a child before, my partner has a son 3years whom we care for everyday, we all live together and the ex only wants my partner. She doesn't want to see her son. It was okay I guess at first only because I love the kid... but now my ...

I've never felt so deeply in love before, I'm going crazy faking the smiles and hiding the tears...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now and I love him to death but the initial butterflies are gone and it's deeper, he's more like a family member. His friend and I became really good friends over the past 5 years too and I can't figure ...

Any advice as to how I can arouse him without touching his male members would be greatly appreciated.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hi all. I am having problems. I am in a fairly new relationship and he knows just what to do to arouse me sexually, but I don't know how to arouse him. He is a little inexperienced and doesn't know what he likes. Any advice as to how I can arouse ...

I do have a loving passion with my boyfriend, but I have never felt this so sexually charged for a person in my life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I am in my 20's. I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend who I love an undescribable amount. However, when we were having problems, we broke up for a month. In this time, I dated a male friend. We stopped dating because I knew he...

I have been married to my husband almost a year now and things have just been going down hill.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hi everyone I have a problem. I have been married to my husband almost a year now and things have just been going down hill. We have a daughter together and we are expecting another one. I just cant take this marriage any longer there is no respect, ...

It seems as though he does not care anymore.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I have been with my bf for 15 months. Lately it seems like he is so comfortable with our relationship that sometimes it seems like he does not even care about me or what is going on in my life. I always want to know whats up with him or how ...

She is scared to hug me or be affectionate with me in front of her parents!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I have like the worlds greatest girlfriend but i am getting really annoyed because she is scared to hug kiss or do anything with me because she is scared fo her parents who i have known for a long long time and they both like me. how can i breakher ...

She's very affectionate with her male friend..trying not to jump to conclusion but struggling here. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I've been with my g/f for 3 years and although we're currently living 50 miles away cos of my work, I hoped she could move to be with me soon, We get to see each other at only weekends, I haven't been pushy asking her to move as I know it would ...

She's cheated in our past, so is her recent behavior making me paranoid or was she just teasing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - My girlfriend cheated on me while she was on vacation. I forgave her because of certain circumstances. last night however I got the vibe she was sending mixed signals. she wouldn't let me touch her like I usually do and accused me of being "clingy"...

I thought that going to live with him would help our long distance struggles, but things are worse now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 464 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - i use to live in miami and i decided to go to school in gainesville, i had a long distant relationship with a guy from gainesville i thought when i moved up here things would get better they have just gotten more intense and fights and we cant stand ...