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Archived questions from: 9 August, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Life with my bf is going downhill, but he is all I have..should I stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 428 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - I've been seeing my bf for over a year and a half, we almost live together, or was. We used to be really close, however things went downhill when i said i loved him... and he never said it back. We talk about it often, i cant help but be upset, i ...

I don't like the fact that he smokes pot, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - Hey, wonder if you can give me some advice. I've known this guy for about two years, and we've been going out for a few months. Anyway we've always been pretty good together but there's one thing that bugs me a lot about him, he smokes weed. He ...

I want to split up, but he wont leave

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - with my partner 12 years drifted after 5, found out sperm no use cant get pregnant. had 1 ivf cycle and failed now gutted. im 41 his 49 alcoholic. life feels endless now . dont no what to do . want to split up, i have no love for him he wont leave. ...

The second time the guy's wife came to my house and showed me a text message on his cell phone from my wife, saying she loved him.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

9 August 2007 (M) - My wife cheats on me constantly, we've been together for 15 years. I just caught her for the 3rd time in the past 8 months with the same guy from her work. At first she said nothing was going on, I caught them flirting. The second time the guy's ...

I love my boyfriend but I do not fancy him anymore and cannot face having sex with him, he does not turn me on at all, in fact it is more of a chore. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend since I was 17, I am now 23. At the time I did not think that anyone would like me and was happy that someone did. Recently I have been getting a lot of attention from men and it makes me wonder if I settled down too ...

Do you think it's worth even giving him another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - Here's a little scenario that just happened yesterday with my boyfriend who I just took back a month ago. We were heading to the beach and we started arguing about me telling him to put on a shirt because he's very flashy with his vehicle and to top ...

I have finally found what has seemed to be the man of my dreams... so why am I so hurt?... I am very ashamed for feeling so sad....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - "Oh, What A Tangled Web I Weave!" I have two children 8 and 2 (ex husband) and I am engaged to a father of four other children (two ex wives). He is great with my children but I know he is empty from not being able to see his other children at ...

When I am with him I feel good but I don't want to invest in something that will be doomed from the start to end.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - Hi, The thing is this, I am seeing a guy, even though we are not technically boyfriend and girlfriend, there is an attraction between us. However he is seperated, he has been for 11 years, and he has 3 kids... well teenagers. His wife has c...

Is he getting cold feet and if so what do I do or is he just saying we're going to get married to satisfy me and was never really intending to go through with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - This September makes 3 years for me and my fiance, our son will be 2 in September as well and we have also learned that I am now 10 weeks along with our second child. I am about to turn 19 this October and My fiance is now 23. Last year we decided ...

I have a massive probem, I can't trust anyone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - I have a massive probem, I can't trust anyone, I was seeing this lad about 3 months ago and then split with him, his mate has been coming on to me recently and I have kissed him and really like him. I have found out that the one I have kissed is ...

My gf tends to be a drama queen. Even during the good times I feel I have to be careful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 431 days ago

9 August 2007 (M) - My girlfriend seems to be stressed about something every second day. I always think it's reasonable to be stressed about the thing, and it'll pass, but as soon as it does, we have one great happy day, then there's a new problem. The usual sort of ...

I know my bf isn't cheating, so why do I keep looking for the signs and getting angry at him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - Please help before I lose him!! Ok I need serious help here. I am being extremly paranoid and it's ruining my life. I'm depressed all the time. Long story short..... I am always suspecting my boyfriend is cheating on me. I have no concre...

My brother and I just pieced together that our father sexually abused us and our sibling. Now he may abuse his 3 year old and unborn baby - help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - Hello my father abused his sisters child for 10 years from the ages of 4 to 10 she got as far as reporting it to the police but found it too traumatic an experience and couldnt face court. I always showed symptoms of abuse but when my cousin ...

He goes out all the time, so i have started seeing his ex best friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - I am a 20 old ladie, i have been with my boyfriend Bob for 5 years, last year we bought a house together. Recently he has changed, he goes out every weekend taking drugs and drinking loads doesn't help around the house, its like im living on my own ...

I'm worried he will spill the beans.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - Please help. I have been with my partner for nearly nine year and have a child with him but recently while out drinking i kissed someone he works with. i get on with the guy as friends and regularly txt him. My partner isnt aware of what ha...

He said I was the one and had a place in his heart - so what's going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - i started chatting to a man on the net over 14 months ago we had a fantastic friendship then we met after 14 monts we had a great weekend no sex we just had a fantastic weekend he broke his leg over 6 weeks ago he live about 400 miles away from me ...

When he was supposed to move in, he moved on instead and told me to forget about him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - I was with this guy 7 months,it was just sex really in the beginning,then a relationship did form and we got on really well,we was going to move in together but he got cold feet,he has never been married before and is in his 40s.anyway things were ...

Even when I cry, my partner doesn't show me any affection. He says "just ask," but when I do, he walks away.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - hi dont know where to start ,i am in a relationship but since about last november my partner does not want sex. i have been under alot of pressure as i have a serous court case coming up this year for abuse i suffered as a child, and doing my ...

I hardly see my bf and he doesn't want to meet any of my family or friends! I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 432 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - Please can you help me. I have been with my bf for just over a yr now whos 23. When i 1st went out with him it was fine i was seeing him every other day. but now after a yr i still havent met hes parents, he still aint met mine and i see him like...

My boyfriend has been texting other women in secret!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - ive just found out recently that my boyfriend has been texting other women in secret and it has crushed me i have been trying to forgive him as he said there was nothing in it.all the trust i had has gone and i have a knot in my stomach the size of ...

He has no sex drive and he looks at me like he 'hates' me. What is up with this guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

9 August 2007 (F) - i was going out with this guy who has been burnt by a couple of women he has no sex drive i dont think he has any interest in sex period but the 2 times he has pleasured me in other ways i get this feeling that he hates me at that point its like ...