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writes:Hello! I am female and 18 years old.So last night, me and my boyfriend lost our virginity to each other. Yes I am on the contraceptive pill and he used a condom, which as far as we are aware, did not break. Anyway, even though we both orgasm-ed, he didn't go all the way in me, i am fully aware that i am no longer a virgin and i have no problem with that, i am just wondering, he only managed to get, lets say..the head of the penis in? 2 inches maybe?I dunno if thats a problem but im aware that its something that takes a while, but will i eventually open up over time, as in the case of 'practice makes perfect' or is there something we should do?Thanks for any help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009): first did it hurt you for his penus to go in you? just try different positions. try laying on your side and him laying on his side behind you and having him put his penus in you that way.
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reader, daletom  +, writes (5 May 2009):
Nothing in your post sounds like a real problem to me.
As others said, it could be that your hymen isn't completely ruptured yet, and your vagina hasn't been fully stretched. These things will almost certainly happen as you have more experiences with your B/F. The next few times may, or may not, be uncomfortable for you. Just continue to communicate with him so you BOTH learn what works, or doesn't work, for you two. It might go easier if you try getting on top of him, guide him in, and adjust your body position as needed to make it feel good for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): Yes. Practice makes perfect.
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reader, LilPixie + ♥, writes (5 May 2009):
 If he didn't manage to get further inside you then my guess would be maybe he wasn't able to completely break your hymen? If this is the case then don't worry, it took me and my boyfriend about 4 days and several attempts before he managed to get all the way inside me.
But yeah it would really help if we had a bit more info.
And as kelly said, try different positions. If you try on top then you can control how deep he goes and how fast.
Hope this helps
Pixie xx
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reader, crazykit666 +, writes (4 May 2009):
I think you would have said if it had caused you pain, so therefore I am assuming either a) your vagina will 'strech' to accomodate him over time or b) you weren't relaxed enough c) you weren't turned on enough. If you don't completely relax those muscles then you will have difficulties.
I would have probably suggested a combination of b) and c). However, you state that you both orgasmed? So it would appear that you were both excited and relaxed. Without meaning to be patronising, are you 100% certain you orgasmed yourself? but then, it is those first two-three inches of the vagina that will prompt your orgasm (g-spot). So again, I'm slightly baffled.
Maybe abit more info about how you were feeling? anxious, maybe? relaxed? turned on? pain...??
I've tried my best here with the knowledge at hand. Hope it helps!
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reader, eyesopen +, writes (4 May 2009):
Its your first time for goodness sake i wish mine was as good as yours! Dont even think about it, it will all happen naturally as your bodies get to know each other better. Do not rush it, believe me, he will want to go deeper inside you and with practice and experience it'll be great.xx
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (4 May 2009):
 Practice makes perfect, try different positions and I'm sure it will go deeper soon enough!x
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