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Is this a case of practice makes perfect or not?

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Question - (4 May 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 26 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello! I am female and 18 years old.

So last night, me and my boyfriend lost our virginity to each other. Yes I am on the contraceptive pill and he used a condom, which as far as we are aware, did not break.

Anyway, even though we both orgasm-ed, he didn't go all the way in me, i am fully aware that i am no longer a virgin and i have no problem with that, i am just wondering, he only managed to get, lets say..the head of the penis in? 2 inches maybe?

I dunno if thats a problem but im aware that its something that takes a while, but will i eventually open up over time, as in the case of 'practice makes perfect' or is there something we should do?

Thanks for any help :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2009):

first did it hurt you for his penus to go in you? just try different positions. try laying on your side and him laying on his side behind you and having him put his penus in you that way.

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (5 May 2009):

Nothing in your post sounds like a real problem to me.

As others said, it could be that your hymen isn't completely ruptured yet, and your vagina hasn't been fully stretched. These things will almost certainly happen as you have more experiences with your B/F. The next few times may, or may not, be uncomfortable for you. Just continue to communicate with him so you BOTH learn what works, or doesn't work, for you two. It might go easier if you try getting on top of him, guide him in, and adjust your body position as needed to make it feel good for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009):

Yes. Practice makes perfect.

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A female reader, LilPixie United Kingdom +, writes (5 May 2009):

LilPixie agony auntIf he didn't manage to get further inside you then my guess would be maybe he wasn't able to completely break your hymen? If this is the case then don't worry, it took me and my boyfriend about 4 days and several attempts before he managed to get all the way inside me.

But yeah it would really help if we had a bit more info.

And as kelly said, try different positions. If you try on top then you can control how deep he goes and how fast.

Hope this helps

Pixie xx

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A female reader, eyesopen United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2009):

Its your first time for goodness sake i wish mine was as good as yours! Dont even think about it, it will all happen naturally as your bodies get to know each other better. Do not rush it, believe me, he will want to go deeper inside you and with practice and experience it'll be great.xx

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (4 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntPractice makes perfect, try different positions and I'm sure it will go deeper soon enough!x

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