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writes:I am 15 years old close to sixteen and im warried about my sex life i truly don't want to be gay because i want a big family but i get attracted 2 men when i was around 5 to 7 i had alot of girlfriends and i was around many guys and i had a best friend that was a boy i was in love with girls but i liked some boys then when i got to fifth grade my best friend had moved and i started being around girls and i started getting attracted to mainly boys and when i got my first computer i looked at gay porn and i like it and still do today i get so horny and run right to a gay website to masterbat to i've been doing that since 6 grade and after i masterbat i have no attraction for a boy AT ALL i'll and i'll feel so stupid for just doing it all through 6 through 7 grade i've not had a male friend just mainly girls cause there was no boy that a could just hang out with i felt so alone everyone had friends but i didn't just really have one good friend all i hung around was mainly girls there were a few boys i could talk to but they weren't really my friends and i still like looking a men naked i hated myself for this i was so into gay porn now im in the ninth grade and i have a good friend (that's a boy) and i like to hang out with him when have a lot in common he's not gay and i hpoe im not gay but he's really fun many people talk about us because he's kinda nerdy and he's quiet we are not really outgoing teenagers like partys and stuff were laid back and but i have a few gay rumors on me because i laugh alot and people say he's always happy he gay but i don't see how that can be gay i always found myself so distance from most boys but i have a good friend but we feel scepticle towards each other sometime and i have started hanginsg around mainly boy mainly boys and i felt better i also said i wanted a girlfriend with long hair im attracted to women with long hair and that was pretty well this year i found one and i think i really like her then times i don't because i don't think she likes me but i don't stop trying to build and relationship with her and im really kinda scared to date her or other girls because of this stupid feelings for men because if they want sex and we really like each other i want be able to do that because i only becomw hard to mainly men but there has been times were im able to masterbat to women i scope out there bodies and see what i like but i still look and naked men having sex but afterwards i hate it this summer i plan on trying to get out more and stay away from men porn i was told if maybe i left porn alone for like a month theres a chance i might be ok but its so hard because i get so horny i think it because i when i get bored and just think and stuff pops up in my head but over the summer i plan of hanging out with my friend (thats a guy) cause since i've been hanging out with him and other guys i feel like i can change my life but like i said its hard to stay away from porn i wanted to go back to school in august at least a little different and not be so attracted 2 gay porn so this summer i just plan on having fun and staying away from porn and see what will happen im the only child and i grew up with my mom my dad wasn't really there and thats one reason why i feel like this is because i grew up around women spoiled but know i have guys i hang out with i do not want 2 be gay i wanted alot of children by a beautiful wife because as the only chiled i get lonely so i wanted many children i really don't want to be gay it just doesn't feel right but thats what i get horny to, well this summer i plan on being out going with friends and cousins instead of sitting up in the house hopefully i will change (its my dream to just be a straight good guy)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): It could just be a phase. If it continues..don't really want to say it but try "it" with a man and see if ou enjoy it more than a women... But you're like me.. I still don't know if I'm gay or bi or whatevr. You can be a gay or a bi and still get a kid.. Adopting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): First, you're only 15 y/o, so don't let anybody try to label you as gay/bi/whatever. When it comes to the development of sexual orientation very little is actually known for certain. What does seem clear is that there are many factors that can play a role in determining one's sexuality. Some people might be born gay and others might develop same-sex attraction during childhood. If you're 15 and still confused about your sexuality it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you; HOWEVER, you may be in a very crucial stage in your development. Sex is the most powerful of human drives, and the images we associate with this gratification become hardwired in the brain. So, EACH time you orgasm to gay porn, you are further hardwiring your brain to crave naked men.If you still have any attraction to women, now is the time to focus on that attraction. But it means NO MORE gay porn. Give it up! You'll have to discipline yourself and focus on other things.Others may tell you that looking at all kinds of porn is wonderful, and you're just experimenting, etc. Or they might, without even knowing you, declare that you're 100% gay, and to embrace it. You can listen to them if what they say makes sense to you - just beware using such sentiments as an excuse to give in the the temptation to go back to the porn.All the best, my friend!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): Well it sounds to me like you're gay! A straight man wouldn't be having fantasies about men, and you dont fantasise sexually about women? Being gay or straight isnt about whether you want children or not, its about who your sexually attracted to, who turns you on, who you want to be close to. And it sounds to me like you want to be closer to men than women. Its nothing to be ashamed of, alot of people are gay, its alot more accepted now than years ago. I'd suggest trying out some porn with women and seeing if they attract you as well. If not, your gay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2009): Oh boy! Ok you seem to be atracted to both boys and girls. You like girls and you like guys. This is called Bisexual. I wouldn't Say you were gay i would say you are Bi.
There is nothing wrong with being bi and liking girls and guys and wanting a family like you do.
Just let your self be your self. Do what you feel is right. Do what feels good. Dont question it just enjoy it.
Your not gay your bi
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