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Archived questions from: 16 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

He's enthusiastic but doesn't orgasm. Where am I going wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We're really close and love each other intensely. However, even though we've made love countless times, he still hasn't yet had an orgasm. What am I doing wrong? He really gets into sex wi...

Lack of oral sex in a relationship...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - I've been dating a girl for 2 years now, and we never have oral sex. She doesn't want me to do it for her, but I do want her to do it to me. I'm not selfish though, I'd go down on her 7 days a week if she'd let me. I love giving oral to women. ...

How can I either stop myself from cumming so soon or find a way to make my boyfriend cum faster???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I am very sensitive when it comes to having sex and find that I cum very easily... my boyfriend is the opposite and takes time to come... I get very frustrated and feel as if I'm not doing enough to please my boyfriend... How can I either stop ...

I don't know what to do when "doing a blowjob"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Me and this boy have been talking and we want to move to oral sex! Well I really don't know what to do when doing a blowjob. Can anyone tell me how because I don't wanna look like a complete fool and not know what I'm doing. Please help!...

Is he just using me for sex and company?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I am 17 years old, and was dating a boy who has turned 19 for 4 months. He dumped me on the night of a party I was hosting claiming that I acted like "a drunk hoe". I really wasn't acting that bad, he just didn't like that I paid more attention to ...

Foreplay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Foreplay. Do men like foreplay on a woman - or are there men who just don't want to get messy before sex - or are they just not interested in sex or possibly the woman?...

He pushes me away now..says he's just too tired

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - my fiance and I have been together for almost 3 yrs.. i am 21 and he is 28. lately he doesnt kiss me and doesnt want sex as much.. we use to have sex about 3-5 times a week and are now down to 1 a week if im lucky! i understand that he is so...

Do woman like oral sex better than sex itself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - Do women like to receive oral sex.I like giving oral sex better then sex itself.I can't get enough of it is there some real good ways to do it, so I can drive my wife crazy wanting more of it...

No sex in marriage for years..why won't he come out with his "secret"??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - My biggest fear,that my husband will come up with a secret ,one day. He stopped having sex with me years ago, and I know, something is ''not ok with him'', but, I don't know what, as he knows very well how to hide his feelings. First he worke...

How and how often do women masturbate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - How often do women masturbate and is easy to do.do you need to look at pictures or something.plz give some details I'd love to do this with my wife but I don't know if she ever does.and is there ways I can tell she. has. thx...

Wife was raped, will it affect her reproductive system?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - My wife was once rape or just a little insertion of penis when she was in 1 standard with a boy who is 5 yrs senior to her and she is now 20 yrs old. I would like to know whether this incident would effect her reproductive system in future or not. ...

What do I do after swallowing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - im going to be giving my bf a head for the first time. i know what to do and everything but im not to sure about afterwards people tell me itsa bit of a put off running sraight to the loo after swallowing to clean your teeth. do guys mind it if you ...

Why won't I let myself cum?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - hi when i masterbate rub the clit to stimulate myself it's really good and really gets me going but what i find difficult is that i won't cum like i'll get really uberly wet but then i feel i have to go to the toilet and i am not sure whether i'v...

Do girls like to suck "it"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - Do all girls like to suck "IT" ? you know..(the man's thing)...and wut position do they like? cuz am trying to make my GF happy......

How to control "it" when masturbating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - When I masturbate for a few mins,like 1 or 2 mins..I cum..and sometimes my cum is few..but when I stop masturbating for like 1 month..I cum alot..why does this happen? and how can I control "IT" to not cum fast after 1 or 2 mins?...

Can you have an orgasm in your sleep?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Can u have a orgasm in your sleep? I think ive had this experience and it was lovely .but im not sure!...

Do you think I can have sex in the future, with my problem right now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I was wondering if I had a problem. I try to use tampons instead of pads, but I can't seem to fit them in. I have a light flow for about 4 days,every 5 weeks. I thought that may be the problem, but I'm not sure. All of my friends use tampons and ...

I had sex with my best friend and guess what? I'm now I'm in love with her.... so am I a lesbian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - hi, im 17years old and i have a problem... and recently found that i have begun to have odd feelings towards my best friend who is also a girl. shes unbelievably pretty, smart, funny and i melt when she speaks to me, which is quite often as i see he...

Sex is always on my mind, and I have done some bad things. What is wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Im a pretty weird person, i did everything that i could think of bad, i had sex for money i cheated on my boyfriend a lot, and right now i`m dealing this guy i like while i`m with my bf. what do i do??? its like i cant say no to a really good guy ...

I'm always on the receiving end. What can I do to be the giver too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - my b/f is really good in making out and in bed , he has experience , while me on the other hand i just find myself on the receiving side , he kisses me all over , licks , sucks , plays .. all but i dont know what to do where to kiss him beside the ...

My b/f has a very high sex drive and I can't keep up. What should we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - hey everyone. my problem involves my boyfriends sex drive. im 19 and he is 22, been going out a few months. He has an extremely high sex drive, and we have just talked about it and he told me that he has lost all his past girlfriends because ...

People feel bad after swallow my semen. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - Hi...I have a curious question and i really dont know how or where start to search about it..the problem is: Everybody man/woman who swallow my cum/sperm/semen or when I blow inside tha anus(anal sex without condom) feels bad after a few ...

I feel really bad and guilty for not being there for her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - Ok, I am 16 years old and I have dated this girl on and off for about 6 years I love her with all of my heart. About 6 months ago she told me that she was raped and I just comforted her for awhile, later she came out and told me who did it. It was ...

I'm just wondering :)

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Ookay.So i was just wondering how you get std and all that other kind of contagious stuff that you can get from sexual contact. Thank you....

A couple questions about masturbation.. *girls*

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - when i'm on my period and have a tampon in while i watch porn, i still come! how can this be if a tampon is in me... no blood comes out, just come? also, is it normal to orgasm continuously? i mean, if i was to count how many orgasms i have in ...

High risk for std?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - I was with another guy and got some of his sperm on my penis. Does that carry any sort of high risk for std/sti?...

Anxious to have sex but scared too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Well hello.I know im young,but i havent actually had sex.i can wait:). Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, about 4 months ago we've been having sexual urges...yeea.He has fingered me a few times,and i've played with him.Im a very small girl, and ...

When do the birth control pills start working?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I just started taking birth control pills today(Wednesday) and I'm going to be at my boyfriends house on Saturday. My Question(s) are: -Will the birth control pills start actually..working by then? -If I'm on Birth Control and he still DOES Use a...

Why can't I have an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - plz help! Me and my boyfriend just started having sex a little while ago, and he was my first. and the first time we did it, he had an orgasm in a good 45-60 minz! but we've had sex multiple times and i just cant seem to get one?? he may have been...

Should I Break the Cycle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Seven months ago I met a very handsome man while hanging out with friends. A month into "dating" him, I found out that he was a professional athlete, something he did not want me to know. We continued as usual. After a while, he started to trav...

What should I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Heyyyy..... i need to know what i should do... Im 15 and my boyfriend is also 15, we have been together for 9 months. We had PROTECTED sex on March 14 and i missed my period and i got alot of pregnancy signs. I took one preg. test Tuesday morni...

Can a guy be good in bed if he's not a great kisser?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I honestly have no idea, just want to know if it's a good indicator, but I doubt it somehow!...