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Archived questions from: 18 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Even although I've had anal sex before and it didn't hurt, why did it hurt so badly this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I've had anal sex before... quite a few times and all has been fine. Even my very first time didn't hurt at all. However... it's been a few months since and my boyfriend now wants to try it again.. so we try to.. but it hurts so much I'm in agony ...

My boyfriend refuses to go down on me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend wont go down on me! i am very clean and shaven down there, just how he likes, and i dont taste bad either. hes only given me oral sex 3 times in 2 months we've been together. its been about 3 weeks since the last time and when ive asked ...

I had sex while I'm off the pill. Could I get pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi so i have only been on the pill for maybe a month now and i am usually pretty good about taking it regularly, plus i am not even really sexually active and up until last night i was a virgin. not considering the circumstances, i forgot my pill...

I have no idea what to do or say!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi Im "S" and I am 13 years old! I have already talked to my mom about a vibrator. She said to be honest when you need a vibrator I will get you one. Well I want one but I don't know how to ask her. How should I ask?? :)...

How do we move on from the affair I had last year?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - My husband recently found out that I had a affair that ended over a year ago. After weeks of living apart following his discovery, we are trying to work things through and I am delighted that he is back home. The problem is that we now stru...

I was sick, I said NO, and now I haven't heard from him for 4 days. Why do think that is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is not calling me... Why?? I guess it started with a few days ago. I know this may seem long but please read..it's actually a quick read and i really need to know why?? He came over even though I told him I was sick and that it...

How could I trust her in the future now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - I have been dating my 24 year old girlfriend for 2 years(I am 32). We had some minor issues over the last few months over us being a bit more serious(i.e moving in together) so we gave each other a little space however we still saw each other at l...

How do you get over a guy who uses you for sex only?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - how do you get over sleeping with a guy who fed you compliments and bullshit just to get you into bed, takes down your number then never calls? And how exactly do you act when you see him again? Im so humiliated I dont know what to do. ...

Questions about first time sex, with emphasis on the penetration

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm a virgin and I never had sex before. I've heard a lot of great tips about foreplay and about the importance of listening to your partner etc. But I've not heard much about the actual penetration itself, surely it's not just sticking it in ...

How can I find out who the father of my child is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Please help me... i had sex with one guy round dec 11 or 12 we only had sex once n it was unprotected.. but ive been having sex with this other guy for a while n its always unprotected.my last cycle was dec 26 and now im 16wks pregnant who could be...

I think my younger g/f's best friend like her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - I'm a forty-seven year old male who's been married four times before and has five children (wih only two of the women). I am also currently dating a twenty-one year old woman. We've been together since last Christmas and yes, we have had sex. But ...

What do you say while giving a lap dance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - What kinds of phrases should i use in a lap dance? Like dirty things to say to him to make him really horny?...

He wants to 69 but I have an "appearance" problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - OKay so my boyfriend wants to 69 but I'm embarrassed cause I have butt crack hair. I've never talked to anyone else about this...is this normal? Does everyone have it? and if not should I shave it?...

I'm 13 and we are considering "fingering", does it hurt and how should we do it?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Okay, well I'm 13 my boyfriend is 15. He is 22 months older then me. He is very very sweet and always is like, "we are not doing anything that you are not sure about or comfortable with." and he means that, seriously. He gets really really worked up ...

How can I tell if my b/f is getting aroused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have made out quite a few times. At first, I wasnt sure if he was getting "excited". Then, last week we were kissing and I was laying next to him and my curiousity grew. I've read some other sights for tell-tell signs that he ...

Sex! Where can we go and not get caught?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I want to have (protected)sex with my bf tomorrow. But we can't go to my or his house. Any suggestions to where we should go and not get caught? And if we do get caught by the police and since I am 18 and he is 19 will we get in troubl...

I didn't make a move on him one time and now he's really off with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I need help, I'm really confused. Me and boyfriend have always been intimate. However recently he is losing interest ever since I didn't make a move on him one time and now he's really off with me. He's not usually like this, he called himself a ...

Call me old fashoined, or stupid, or naive, but I believe that truly amazing and intense sex comes from love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Does the best sex ever mean he truly loves me? Call me old fashoined, or stupid, or naive, or whatever you want, but I believe that truly amazing and intense sex comes from love, and not JUST the physical stimulation. My current boyfriend is by far ...

Stepping out of my sexual prison...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I'm still young but have been stuck in a mundane and protected box, only had 1 boyfriend which my mom really chased away when he found out we had had sex, and any mention of anything sexual is'nt something I'm allowed to partake in because I'm too ...

2 months dating too soon for oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I am 20 and he is 23 and we have been together for a month and a half. We havent done anything sexual even though he really wants to. I told him that I am not ready to have sex because I have been really hurt in previous relationships because of it ...

I'm 17 and feeling guilty about my sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5493 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm 17 and I feel very guilty about sex, I started last year and never told my mom and she found out in a messed up way so I broke up with the guy that devastated me and I feel like I should be innocent for her sake because she believe I've ...

I now find myself feeling unsatisifed with my relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I seem to be asking for advice again... Me and my fella have been together over a year now and last time I wrote in we were bickering a lot... Now that has calmed down a bit but I now find myself feeling unsatisifed with my relationship... When ...

What is a "rainbow kiss?"

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I'm 13 my boyfriend is 16. We are both non virgins from other relationships. We have had sex and done everything. Finger, BJ, 69, toss off, lick out ect. We were keen to move onto a rainbow kiss he said, I don't know what a rainbow kiss is.. What is ...