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Archived questions from: 9 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I need ideas to spice up our sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi! I want to continue to spice up our sex life. We've tried sex outdoors, using whipped cream, vibrators, anal sex. . . anyone got any other ideas? I'm sure there must be plenty of things to try but I've just run out of ideas....

Her past FWB, it's killing me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - Hello. I'll cut right to the chase. I am falling in love with this girl i've been dating for 5 months. She told me she is falling for me. She is everything I'm looking for in a woman...elegant, smart, driven, charming, sexy, successful. One nigh...

Troubled teenager with a young baby and one on the way

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - hello, i'm sorry to bother use with such a embarrassing question but i really need to know, i am a really sexually active teenager and i already have a 3 month old baby, i went through a rough past and turned to men ive had 30 bed partners or mayb...

Should I trust my g/f? She got drunk and stayed in a hotel with another guy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend won't come anywhere near me.She treats me like some sort of idiot. We have been together for some 8 months now and haven't slept together. She has had quite a few previous sexual partners, myself having had only 1. Recently she got ...

Can you take the morning pill 2X in one cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - i was told that u can get pregnant by pre come so wen i had a 1 nite stand i thought i ought to take the morning after pill,evern though tthe bloke didnt come.two days after i took it i slept with some 1 else and he did come inside me,i didnt take ...

Question on safe sex during pregnancy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Ok, I have a question for all! When you suspect you're a few weeks pregnant it's still safe to have sex, right? But even rough sex? The thing is..I'm waiting for my blood test results. I won't find out for a week or so. I haven't told my bo...

Is it harmful for me to masturbate 2X a day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - hi....i am masturbating daily.....morning i ll masturbate till my sperm gets over and again in night i do so.is this ll be injurious to ma marriage life,,,,i m not married yet and ma age is 21. plz help me out...

Would we be ok to have sex with protection and me on the pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

9 April 2009 (?) - Me and my boyfriend are both 15 years old and virgins, we have been best mates when little and actually got together 3 years ago next month. We've talked about sex, we have condoms, and we have only kissed and hugged alot, i have given him a hand...

Cute vs Sexy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I have a question. I know, I have a lot of questions, but I also have a lot of answers, so I think it balances out =] I've noticed that a lot of guys I know have, over the past few years, said that I am so hot and sexy. They say they want to hav...

How do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Just a general question in case my boyfriend wants to touch me up or anything, how do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not? I don't think we'll be doing anything yet as I'm not ready to have sex but it would be nice to think that if...

I'm soo turned on, but I'm a virgin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi im a 17 year girl. and im still a virgin. But recently all my mind is on is SEX. I cant even talk to man without thinking what it would be like to have sex with him. I get turned on by the smallest things. i'm also having dreams about me havin...

Vasectomy and ED .. are they related?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - my man had a vasectomy about a year ago here recently he has a problem of keeping it up we have tried a lot of different things like foreplay or him doing the deed before we have sex and a ot of other things nothing works and after he gets off it w...

Is my illness due to sex or pregnancy or a miscarriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I had sex around 7 weeks ago for the first time, we used a condom but it split. He then entered once more (lets just say i wasn't willing him to) and then I pushed him off and everything was fine. That was until I became really ill. I was ...

How do I tell my guy that I'm having my period today, without totally ruining the mood?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I've been out with a man about 6 times over the course of about a month. The first 2 or 3 dates I thought he was strange and weird looking (sorry, just being honest here) but for whatever reason, kept wanting to see him again. The last few time...

On the pill, on my period, test negative. But could I still be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Okay, I'm taking birth control pills and I take them everyday on time.. never missed 1 in 2 months. Me and my boyfriend had sex, and the condom broke. I took a pregnancy test and it was negitave and I'm on my period right now. However, my friend t...

Teenage sex problems!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm going round my boyfriends tonight and I think he's going to "finger" me. I'm concerned as I generally only use one finger and if he tries two I'm afraid it was hurt. Is this normal? ...

My boyfriend has no sex drive but I've caught him watching porn!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - im in a relationship with a man that never wants sex. I am starting to feel very lonely all the time and find myself crying myself to sleep at night wondering what i have done wrong. Yet i have caught him watching porn and relieving himself to it ...

He got hard talking to me via webcam....does this mean he still likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - hi so there is this guy he used to fancy me a while ago and i him but then he went away for a few months and we never spoke as it would cost far too much to text and ring anyways he came back but he had changed towards me he then said he didn't like ...

Chances of her being pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - My fiance and I had sex last night, we normally pull out but she was on top and we couldn't coordinate fast enough when I came so the first couple shots ended up getting inside her. It wasn't much and she went to the bathroom and washed out. Could ...

My husband is stuck in his bachelor ways!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I have been married a year this month. I learned about 5 months ago that my husband is addicted to porn. He would rather get himself off then have me particpate and enjoy myself. Our doctor who I have taken the oppurtunity to discuss this with has...

How do I inititiate a hand job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Ok so i'm 19, and my boyfriend is also. He has fingered me a couple of times, and now i want to give him a hand job. Trouble is i don't know how to initiate it, im quite shy and get embarassed easily. How should i start it off?...

I had sex today without protection, could I get pregnant?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex today just about, maybe 11 hours ago. We didn't use protection(I thought he had a condom on but he didn't so please no rude comments) anyway, We started it "doggy style" but while we were doing it doggy style, He didn't ...

If I am pregnant, I have no idea who the father would be!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Well I'm 15 and I have a 15 year old boyfriend that is about to turn 16. We have been together for 9 months and We have had PROTECTED sex a few times and had no worries about it. But lately I have been getting pregnancy signs and I missed my period. ...

What could happen and what should I look out for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I was really dumb last night completly out of my mind. I was visiting my boyfriend see, to cut all the extra, we had sex although it happened to be the first day or rather first evening of my period. I only noticed that it started after he pulled ...

I can't perform and she's starting to think I'm not attracted to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I currently just tried having sex with my girl friend and was not able to maintain an erection. She able to make me have an orgasm by performing oral sex. I'm very much in love with her and I care about her a lot. She is the first girl I have tried ...

Cant get my boyfriend to come...what am I doing wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - No matter what I do it takes my boyfriend ages to come or he doesn't come at all. We do every position known to man, heaps of foreplay (at least half an hour of mutual kissing, touching masturbation), I give him oral sex for ages but I just canno...

Is there a way to tighten up "down there"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - How do you make your vagina tighter? My boyfriend has a massive penis and im worried that he is stretching me and if we break up ill be ruined for other guys?...

Changing condoms could have gotten her pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I had sex today, used a condom. Surprising, I came quite fast but I pulled out. Knowing that she hadn't came yet, I put on a new condom. My concern is, when I switched out, my hand was wet and I wasn't sure if it was from hers or mines and I ...

Do you think I sould have sex ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I am Only 13 and my boyfriend wants me to have sex i think i am ready for sex i have kissed some one an messed around on the bed but i am still a vigen i nee answers please x...