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Sex: Help and advice

Do we need to use protection and should I ask him to be tested?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Do we need to use protection? Me and my boyfriend fool around, lately naked. We don't actually have intercourse, he just insterts his penis in the opening not inside, he doesn't ehh cum or anything, he has been sexually active before with at least ...

Is swinging booming in real life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - is swinging booming in real life or does it only sounds like that in the web but in real life it is not that much?? and is it true that most swinger couples practice interracial sex??? i mean the wife or th GF especially??...

Do these things take time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I'm seventeen years old and have a boyfriend of 2 months who's a year older than me. We get along really well and I have strong feelings for him, but I'm one of these people who aren't really familiar with the sexual side of relationships, I've had ...

B/f bored with me in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Lately I've had this feeling that my boyfriend is bored with me in bed, he only likes to get intimate once a week and it's always on a saturday night, always at the same time and I want it more, even twice a week would be a good start. I'm open to ...

How to seduce my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some help (especially from any guys here!) about how to seduce my bf. We've been together for 4yrs. He usually initiates sex, always in the bedroom, and I'd like to make a change. He used to take me to the bedroom at least once a day, ...

Just wish we could be a normal couple!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I am a 49 year old woman and I have know the man I am with for 45 years. We were 4 years old when we met. We started dating when I was about 17 years old. We have 3 children. Boy 30, girls 23 and 18. We started living together in 1986. We are still ...

What heightens the mood during sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - Guys while having sex what hightens the mood, personally wat gets me going is when my girl grabs my ass and i dont me squeeze i mean she is about to rip it off. And i guess girls can answer this question too i like hearing from both...

Sex isn't good..will it get better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Soo i met this guy a few months ago and eventually really started to like him. Then a few nights ago we had sex and then we did again last night but the thing is hes not that big 'down there' and the people i been with before were bigger so when he ...

How to boost her self esteem so we can get the passion in the bedroom back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - Sex with my girlfriend used to be great but recently we seem to have hit a bit of a lull. She is younger than me and less experienced and expects me to take the lead in the bedroom. I didn’t mind this at first but after 7 months it is a bit f...

22 and NOT horny!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I am 22 and have been with my partner for 5years. He is 50. When the relationship started the sex was amazing. Now, i dont feel horny towards him anymore. Dont feel horny towards any male really. is there something wrong with me? what can i do to ...

Could I still have sex if on my period? And what could happen to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - well my boyfriends birthday is coming up and his gift i want it to be a night alone. and well been a night alone with your boyfriend things might happedn. the thing is that for that day i might be on the last days of my period. or maybe even a day ...

I have 2 problems here, but I just want my sister back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 215 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - ok i got 2 problems here. problem #1. ok i just got with this new guy iv been with him for about a week and 3days now... his totally sweet and all but i hear rumours his dating me for a dare by random kids at school.... i spoke to him bout it he s...

Is it true that 45% of women hate having sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - is it true that some woman dont have any sexual feelings?? as some men off course my wife doesn't like sex she is sexually dead. i am afraid i couldn't find a better word. the problem is that i love her, i am not naif and i know how to turn ...

I feel out of the crowd because I can never say sex feels good. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - so Is it just me or is it the guy. I've had sex alot of times but It never feels good to me. Idk maybe I'm doing something wrong or focusing more on his needs then mine? but never once has sex with a guy felt good to me. all my girlies tell me how g...

How do you know if they really like you, or just want to sleep with you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - How do you know if a guy really likes you, or just wants some action? I refuse to be used. I need some advice, preferrably from males. Do you act a certain way, what goes on in your mind? Any signs to look out for.. Ladies, any past experi...

Should I go see a doctor about this itchniness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I lost my virginity just over a month ago and we never used protection. I know it was a stupid mistake. I have had my period but i have had excess of clear fluid and it can be itchy at times. Is this normal or should I go and see a doctor? ...

We used to romp the bed every night. Now it's only once a week!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for a year and a half now, we are very happy together but he still hasn't told me that he loves me and we live together. That's not my only concern. We use to have sex almost every night and now it's only once a week. Am ...

An explosive geyser or a dribble?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - Men and Women: What is the most you have ever ejaculated in one sex session? What do you think contributed to the amount of ejaculate you had?...

When do you stop while having oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - i would like to know some more about oral sex. when giving a blowjob, do you stop when he cums? after he blows his load, and i swallow. is it done ? like, am i suppose to stop? ive never known, and it just feels weird. someone help !...

Protection always used but could she be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

1 April 2009 (M) - I am 16 I have had sex with my girl a lot of times with protection I never go without protection.None of the condoms broke each time I did it I just wanna kno could she be pregnant?...

How long does sperm stay alive?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Ok, I need to know the real answer to my question.. I keep hearing different things and I'm unsure. If a couple uses the pull-out method (cum in your belly and around the vajina). You go to the restroom and wipe but it goes in and around your vaji...

I know I'm "ready" but I'm scared his penis won't fit in me...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

1 April 2009 (F) - Me and my bf have been dating for about 4 months and I'm still a virgin but he's obviously not. I really want him to be the one because I trust him fully and even if we do break up - I just know that he's the one. I'm only 14 but I know I'm read...