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Archived questions from: 24 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

What should I do next to my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - hey I am 13. Well, u see i have this girlfriend and i've kissed her, held her hand, ect. I was wondering what i should do next without seeming like a pervert. I really love her and don't want to lose her. She has touched a place in my heart I di...

I'm uncomfortable talking dirty to my attractive friend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Ahh please help. Im 16 and my friend is turning 17 in a few months, hes really attractive and says he thinks i am too. We talk alot and i really like him, but lately he was messing around online and talked dirty to me and then asked me too, jus...

My partner raped me when I was pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - i am 21 yrs old and uptill a few months ago had blocked out being raped twice by my partner while i was pregnant, to be honest throughout the pregnancy i was num so didnt really know how to eel but now i'm getting stronger and my confidence is ...

Traumatized that my girl had sex with another guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I'm cutting this really short. Basically my girlfriend got very drunk and let a guy have sex with her. She didn't say no but she wasn't exactly saying yes and the cops say it isn't rape. I can't stop playing what happened through my head constant...

I get majorly sore from sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 212 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of almost 4 years and I have a great sex life, and honestly, we both like it a little rough. Nothing like whipping or biting or the like. Just HARD. Sometimes after a good romp, he will want to go again later in the day or the next day. ...

Advice on barrier method birth control

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I am interested in advice concerning barrier method birth control, namely the sponge or diaphragm. Are they uncomfortable? Do they interfere with enjoyment of sex? Are they difficult to use? If anyone is using them, I would appreciate whatever ...

I have stomach pains and dark blood, after my b/f fingered me as I was just coming off my period, any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - hi, i wonder if you can help meee.. im 16 and my boyfriend is 17. yesterday he fingered me, and i was just coming off my period. there was some blood (ewww) and today ive been getting shooting pains in my stomach and dark blood, but im not sure if ...

Muslim girl confused about giving oral sex.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - i've known my boyfriend for 4years now, recently been going out, we've been together for a year and a half. recently he asked me for oral sex, which i did promise him but only because i was going away on holiday and i didnt want him to cheat. now ...

I'm a man and I get really wet. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - Before I start, apologies if this question has already been asked, but I couldn't find it. I've recently turned 20 and I'm not a very sexually active person. I've only ever had sex once, when I was a lot younger, so I didn't really think abo...

He likes me on top...but how do I get him to do me in other positions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - During sex, my boyfriend seems to like it when I'm on top when we have sex. But I'd like to try other positions too, and I want him to shag my brains out. I don't feel like doing all the work. How can I get him to do me in other positions as well?...

Can Ibuprofen stop your period for a few hours?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I have a question.. Im on my period.. and my parents are traveling for the weekend.. so I guess you all by now have guessed where this is going for.. I have heard that Ibuprofen can stop your period for a few hours. is this true? if so how doe...

Pregnancy test came back negative but still showing some symptoms!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - im really confused. in march i saw my period on the 3rd but had unprotecetd sex on the 13th for the first time in my life and on the 15th. my period came in on the 2nd of april immediately after i took the urine pregnancy test which came out ...

Unusual armpit fetish!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - About 9 months ago when I woke up in the morning my face was buried in my wifes armpit.I loved it since then I do it everyday.why do I do it or is this normal...

Not giving up the "goods" too soon - does this still apply in mid-life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - This may seem like a strange question, but, curiosity has the best of me. Studies have shown that at certain points in our life, sexual desires are higher than others for both men and women. However, studies have also shown that men appear to want ...

He says he loves only himself??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 212 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I have this friend we are very close if there is a problem he would call me. i started haveing feelings for him but i did not tell him for a while after a period of time i could not take it any more so i told him, he then informed me that he has ...

Funk on the chunk

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I'm supposed to go down on my boyfriend tonight and I don't want to. The first and only time I did it, I decided it should be the last. I've had other boyfriends and had no problem doing it, actually I liked it. But my boyfriend is uncut and there ...

He wants me to "worship" him! What does this mean???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - My Boyfreind wants me to worship him and i realy want to but i dont know what to do or say when doing it. Like he wants me to worship is dick but how. When i worship is dick what do i do. What kind of things should i say to him and should i tease ...

How can I come faster the second time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - Sometimes I cum very fast. I do not know why, but after that it takes me a long time to be ready for a second orgasm. Why does this happen and does any one have any suggestions on how I can speed up? [re written by moderator.]...

If you have almost dried semen on your fingers and you touch a girl... ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - Hi, My question is this, if you have semen on your fingers..(but its pretty much dry) and then finger a girl can she get pregnant? I didnt put my fingers inside her at all though, just touched the outside. any help would be great thanks...

The thought of sex really worries me now because I was scared to say no to my former boyfriends! Please advise.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Okay so i am not a virgin. I lost my viginity at 13 (young i know). I have had sexual partners and i felt alot of pressure when it came to sex. My first sexual partner wasn't my B/F he was just a friend. We was going to have sex but i said no an...

In need of help with a friends with benefits situation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - i've been in an FWB relationship with a guy for four months. we first dated but then he deicded he didn't want a real relationship, so i agreed on friends with benefits so i could keep him around. every time we're together, we spend the night at...

I think my boyfriend has a phobia with going down on women!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - I think my boyfriend has a phobia with going down on women. he has tried a few times but has never went down on any woman and he is 30 years old. i have questioned him about this and he says he doesn't know why he can't do it and says his problem ...

I'm young, inexperienced and wish to be more gentle sexually

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

24 April 2009 (M) - umm hi im 13 (young i think). i have a 3 1/2 penis and i think its short for my gf. my gf says she wants it to be pleasurable for the first time but i dont wanna hurt her. will there be anyway to be more gentle? im also afraid that i cant last...

Could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

24 April 2009 (F) - Ok So Here It Goes My Boyfriend Finger Me So I Returned The Favor and he wiped his thing off then he fingerd me could i be pregnant i never slept last night thinking about it im sick to my stomach please help me im flipping out...