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Why can't I have an orgasm?

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Question - (16 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, *m0xRainbow writes:

plz help! Me and my boyfriend just started having sex a little while ago, and he was my first. and the first time we did it, he had an orgasm in a good 45-60 minz! but we've had sex multiple times and i just cant seem to get one??

he may have been my first, but i was still very experienced with toys and masturbating. we had sex today for an hour and a half, and though it was close, no orgasm!?....am i a freak??? is this normal?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

No you are not a freak. Some people never have orgasms.

Keep trying, and enjoy yourself in the trying!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009):

Orgasm comes from stimulating the clitoris, not from entercourse. I myself have only had one during sex once. I have no idea what caused it. It feels really good if he plays with you while you're having sex though. you're not a freak, ok?

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