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Archived questions from: 14 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Do people stop using condoms in a committed relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I am a foreigner dating an American and in the country I came from it is quite natural if you are in a committed relationship to drop condoms and using other types of birth control such as loop or pills. The other day my boyfriend said t...

Risk of pregnancy... please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend, he used a condom so afterwards we decided to do it again so he put a new one on. We did it for a little bit he didn't cum in the condom so he took it out but then 30 minutes after we reused it. Is there any chance of ...

How can I get the pleasure back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 218 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years now, but recently I've been finding that I'm not getting any pleasure from our sex any more. He still enjoys himself and loves what I do to him, but when he tries anything on me for some reason I ...

How loose is loose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - pretty weird question actually but i was just curious. what would constitute a woman feeling loose? i am aware that it would depend on the size of the penis and how relaxed she is. but is there any guidelines, i suppose how many fingers you can fit ...

What kind of foreplay do you use before anal sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend always drops hints that he wants to try anal sex. I've never done this before and am kind of nervous. I don't want him to ask I kind of want to try it on his birthday coming up. I just don't know about the foreplay of it all. I mean ...

How do you make your boyfriend WANT you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - How do you make your boyfriend WANT you? This is a strange situation - I've been seeing a man who I love but I'm not sure he really wants me! He only used to call or meet up when he wanted something so I told him we may as well forget it. Anyway, ...

Kinky new ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - so me and my bf have been dating for a while and we have done kinky stuff like tying him up tying me up blindfold and chocolate syrup and things like that, but we are trying to find something new to do any ideas?...

I felt so bad and I kept asking if it was me...!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - hi you fellars i need some advise here, i recently hooked up with this guy, he was my best friend since in senior, we lost contact for 2 years all this time i lost his number but appartently he had always been calling mine which my mom took off but ...

Large tipped condom does ????

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i bought a variety pack of condoms. Ribbed and Studded, i completely understand, but what is the large tipped one ment for? When he put it on it was just like the top was all baggy and didn't do anything for either of us. Is this ...

Daying to reach a climax

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Recenttly my husband has had a problem reaching a climax during sexual intercourse. What could be the problem? Is there something I can do?...

Reusing condom and pregnancy risk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi my bf and I had sex a day before i'm suposed to get my period today is the 14 and the 15th I need to get my period but while we had sex everything was ok but then he wasn't hard anymore so he pull out then put another condom but he wasn't hard so ...

Will I always be scared about having sex? Or will I outgrow this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I am an 18 year old female, still a virgin, but I'm scared to have sex. I was sexually harassed for 3 years by my father and I'm scared that I wont ever be able to trust a guy enough to have sex with them. Am I going to out grow this or am I going ...

What does his approach about our sex life say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for over a year now. we have sex on a regular basis. he always uses the "f" word to describe it. the other night he asked if i wanted to make "F". he never refers to our sex as making love. its kind of ...

Disgusting skeet taste!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend do a lot of foreplay. I always didn't mind swallowing, but recently it has tasted a lot different, I gag, and I just want to throw up, but of course I try to hide it, because I don't want to hurt his feelings. What should I ...

How do I become dominant? I thought I was but he considers me submissive!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - So today is my one year with my boyfriend and he's always said that he love having sex with me, but it bugged me one day when I was trying to be the dominant one he said that i was submissive. This was a while ago and tonight i want to show him that ...

How can I make him feel good about himself and be more into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - my husband and i have been together for almost 15 yrs we hav children too. we've always been into each other, but how can i catch his attention more? i want to make him feel good about himself and want him to be more into me......

I don't know if he's nervous, or its me but he can't seem to stay hard

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 220 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi there, me and my bf are having problems in the bedroom and i dont really understand why: heres the back story... Me and my Boyfriend met about 9/10 months ago as he lives about 3 hours away in a house with my sister and his best friend who ...

Spicing up oral sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - i need new ways to get turnd on any ideas please also has anyone got any ideas on spicing up the sex life or new thing that a lad can do to us girls please all ideas welcome thankyew xx...

Will a special encounter with a female help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - I am 22 years old. I am most confused. I don't have a reason to wake out of bed. I still haven't had any real special encounters. I have no experience in the dating game whatsoever. I hate to use the dreaded "V" word if you know what i mean. I ha...

Used & Confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - ok so there's this guy that im crazy about that i've dated for a while in the past but we somehow stopped seeing each other with no formal break-up or anything. we started back talking about 5 months ago and ended up having sex for the first time...

After 4 years together, stay in or get out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, My fiance and I have been together nearly 4years now and i think the spark has gone. We argue a lot of the time, we have no money, huge debts, we hardly make love and if we do I don't enjoy it, I just do it for him because he has a...

How do I give him the go ahead without straight up telling him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I am 18, turning 19 in a few months, and I really want to lose my virginity. My bf and I have been dating for almost two years but we've kept it pretty innocent; we're both virgins. The funny thing is, all my friends think we're sexually acti...

To guys that wil be honest with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy now for about 3 weeks, and we had sex for the first time last night. We started off with 4 play and well I have had 2 kids, so my " area" is not the most perfect. He was fingering me and asked me if it hurt, I in return ...

Can't Seem to Ejaculate All of a Sudden - Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 217 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - How's it goin' ya'll? I've got a few questions, although I'm still pretty new here. Actually, frankly, this is my first question. I have a few inquiries about the sex life both my girlfriend and I enjoy. Well, really, it was being enjoyed, t...

Why the sudden change in using protection?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Why after 4 months of (2 times a week) having unprotected sex with my married "boyfriend" does he want to START to use condoms? ( I can't get pregnant either)...

Doubts about compatibility

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a problem that i dont know how to deal with. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for a year now well it will be a year next week, we have been on and off because my family doesnt like him and because he is into the outside life a ...

Regret and worry over one night in hotel room

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I tend to be OCD and I worry over everything. A year ago I met a guy online who seemed pretty cool. We got into some sexy talk and talked a couple times via instant message. He sent me a picture of himself straight away and usually that bugs me,...

Curious: How does porn turn people on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hey y'all what's up! How's it going? Okay I need to know how in the hell does porn turn ppl on? It's just naked ppl hooking up! Just go to your spouse or the one you love! And in my opinion Its gross!! But I just need to know how does porn turn u ...

We text 24/7 but never heard his voice or met him. Next step?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - there is this guy named "J". He is soooo sweet and nice and i have no problem with him whatsoever. but their is a problem with our relationship. its that i never even heard his voice. he found me on facebook, and we started from there. we talk o...

What do you guys think? Virgin or not? Or, at least, is my hymen broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - One night, I was drinking.. Long story short, he started to put his dick inside me until I said stop. I just remember it hurting and it was just for a second. I KNOW he didn't put it in all the way, but I just remember it hurting and it was only...

Why would he be putting me off like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My man is 31 years older than me. We used to have great sex before I had our son. Its been 3 months and im always horny. We couldn't when I was preggo cuz of complications. We have has sex once since after the baby. I let him know when I want it and ...

Is there something wrong with me being a virgin at 18?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and still a virgin, but I live in a dorm and people here all just, they pretty much go after me and talk with each other about how I'm scared to have sex just cuz I havent ever done it. Is there something wrong with me being a virgin at 18?...

Are his jokes half true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 222 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi i speak to this boy practically everyday, he said its weird how we get on so well. He kisses me and that, we havnt slept together. Why has he not asked me out yet?? He jokes about seeing other girls and sleeping with them..am i stupid to beli...

17 guys...do you think that's a lot?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - To my knowledge every female makes a list with every guy she's ever been intimate with. Well I was bored and decided to make mine. And over the course of 8 years I've been with 17 guys. Do you think that's a lot?...

I do love him but due to his current status, I am not willing to see him at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My ex is engaged and has been contacting me for two months now explaining how much he loves me and misses me. He originally contacted me to check on me because he thought I was still living in another state but I had been living back in the stat...

Almost my whole school has labeled me as a "slut'...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I started having sex 2 years ago and soon found myself sleeping with different guys at parties almost every weekend. There really isnt anything sexually that I didnt try and almost my whole school has labeled me as a "slut'. I know that I deseve it ...

I made a mistake with a "bad" boy and now I've been put in an awkward position!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - I'm very uncertain how to proceed, I have a bad boy in my life that I have a boyfriend but I can't resist the bad boy. He's extremly drop dead gorgeous and every time I was meant to meet him something went wrong like the universe saying don't do it. ...