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Sex: Help and advice

What exactly is an orgy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - Whats an orgy?? Im just curious, ive heard it in movies and stuff, but i just dont know what it is!...

Normal for a straight girl to fantasize about gay sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - Sometimes when I masturbate I think of lesbians. But I'm a straight girl. Is this normal?...

My husband found out he was molested

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - i need help. My husband found out he had been molested as a child, but he doesn't know who or even when. He says he knows it happened. He has not wanted to have sex with me at all. He used to ask for it every day and he used to get off to porn when ...

I have absolutely no clue how you can get STI's

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - When you give someone a hand job, can u get an STI?? I don't understand why you can't? Also, what infections can you get from kissing loads of people at a party, when everyone is getting off with one another? HELP!...

What are first signs of pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I think i'm pregnant. So i just want to know when should i expect pregnancy signs and what are the first signs?...

Why do I love the manwhores?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - lets see im sage and i 18 and for the past 4 years i have been dating manwhores. i dont know what it is i attract them and i can never seem to get them out of my system as hard as i try i always run in to them and then take them back. i used to know ...

He couldn't get it up help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - so i've been friends with this guy for about 4 months now, we've hung out and we're cool with each other. we get along really well and decided that neither of us wanted a relationship but that we wanted to have sex with each other. sort of a friends ...

We are on a break now, but am I wasting my time on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i am a 38 year old female and after a two year relationship with a guy that i really care for a lot we have decided to take a break as we have no sex life, in fact the last time we had sex was May 08. He tended to go missing for periods of time...

Do women get more turned on by men taking the lead in the bedroom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - I think the title says it all really, but is it true? Provided us men do the right thing and ask what the woman wants obviously, is it hotter and more of a turn on for women when men take control and lead when it comes to sex?...

Do all women like the taste of semen or are there women out there like me that don't like the taste of it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I've been with my partner for 5 years now (he is the only person I have ever been with) but there's one problem... I don't like the taste of his semen!! But watching porn movies women seem to love the taste of their mens semen?! Do all women li...

I had tubal ligation, but could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I would really love some feedback about this, it is important. 7 years ago I had a tubal ligation done, but last month I found out I was pregnant only it was in my tubes. Now it's the following month and I am experiencing some of the same symp...

I'm lost for sex turn ons and ready to give up... Advice Please!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - I dated my wife for four years. She believed in no sex before marriage so we didn't have sex even though she wasn't a virgin. On our wedding night we had sex and she seemed to enjoy it. In the following months we had sex once or twice but she just...

I'm not on birth control. Can I get pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I'm not on birth control but when I have sex with my boyfriend he doesn't ejaculate inside my vagina. He normally ejaculates on my stomach but last weekend he was a bit slow pulling out and some of his sperm went in me. It was mostly outside but ...

What should I do if I bump into my ex again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - in febraury, my (ex)girlfriend broke up with me although sayin everything would be the same except no sex. she wasnt normal (i guess cuz she missed me) and we havnt spoke to each other since then. as time went by, typical things have happened such ...

Is this some type of orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - Hi, since i was a young boy, i always felt something whenever i went to pee and it still happens. One time i told my mother about it and she didnt know the answer. N ow i have grown and gat to know what an orgasm is, Whenever I am about to fini...

Question for men: Does porn get you off or is it a fantasy that you would like to act out for real?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I'd like to ask any men out there,if you get off on something on porn movies does this mean it is a fantasy that you would like to act out for real??? My partner of 7 years has been watching porn ,but 95% of it was anal sex!I decided to ask him if t...

Wife fantasized about her friend and our sex was great!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - Im a 28 yearold man married for 4years and to put it nicely, my sex life has not been what u would call active. i recently found out that my attraction for her has not been returned as much as i would want. i guess im not all that attractive a ...

Not had sex for a while and am I little bit scared of going there again...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I've been single for a while (9 months), and by saying I've been single, I also mean celibate. I haven't even dated anyone until now, so am feeling socially challenged to my list of concerns. I am all kinds of nervous about sex with someone ...

He's too gentle during love making. How can I ask him to be a little rougher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I just realized that I am unsatisfied during sex with my b/f of 2 years and I know why.... I'm not sure if he tries to be so gentle with me because I was in an abusive relationship or if this is just the WAY HE has sex. He is always so GENTLE. ...

What are some basic but definite ways to turn a guy on during foreplay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - What are some basic but definite ways to turn a guy on during foreplay? My boyfriend and I are both virgins, and we're going slow. But we recently started messing around, and I really wanna turn him on! We're both inexperienced (and he knows th...

How can we be sure that sex helps in establish closeness and intimacy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I have a nice boyfriend. I want our relationship to become closer and establish intimacy. Is kissing and sex a good way of becoming closer in a relationship? Is kissing and sex a good way of establishing intimacy? How can be used as a way of esta...

How can an inexperienced virgin, fearful of relationships, learn to be a great sexual lover?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - ...I M a 38 year Caucasian old heterosexual male completely inexperienced with relationships. Not only a virgin, I have never been been in a relationship or even DATE depending on the definition of 'date'? Significantly introverted, in ...

What can I do to keep him? I really do love this man but I'm scared!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - i got to be honest so I am kinds worried about my relationship. I have been so mean to my boyfriend for awhile know. I'm not too sure why buy I get so mad at him and sometimes its not his fault. I love him with everything I can! We are both under a ...

He wants to be FWB

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I am a teen girl and this guy I had a crush on wanted to be friends with benefits. We had never really spoken before and I was confused. I said yes at first, but then I changed my mind before we actually did anything. He was nice about it and ...

If two virgins have sex, (and no protection is used), does that mean that neither will get a sexually tramsmitted disease?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - If you are a virgin, you can't have a sti, as you have never has sex, right?? So, In theory, if two virgins have sex, (and no protection is used), does that mean that neither will get a sexually tramsmitted disease? Please answer!!! I need t...

Premature ejaculation.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for at least three months now. When we first had sex, he premature ejaculate, which I thought was common for first time experience. Yet, still after all that he still has that problem. We have sex for about ...

Is it stupid to think I'm pregnant?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - Someone please help me is it stupid to think I'm pregnant? I was rubbing on my bf's penis with my vagina. It was stupid to do that cause I was jerking him off with my hand too this was 3 weeks ago. I know it was stupid so please don't lecture me. I ...