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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Well hello.I know im young,but i havent actually had sex.i can wait:). Ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, about 4 months ago we've been having sexual urges...yeea.He has fingered me a few times,and i've played with him.Im a very small girl, and since i am wouldnt i be "down there" too?He's rather large, and i just dont know how much it would hurt.I know im not ready phisically, but i think i am.but im not. Im just asking if it would be any good idea to have sex or not.Even if we do...is there anything to prevent any pain?Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): I'm glad that you know you're too young. Please keep that in mind as you have these sexual urges. It would not be a good idea. And when you are ready, I don't believe there is anything to prevent the pain. It's just one of those things that is part of life and you have to get over. It's not that bad. It always hurts the first time and gets better later on. But still... WAIT A BIT LONGER.. please?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): Honey take your time. If you are feeling anxious about it then the timing is just not right. You are such a young girl, enjoy your youth! Have fun with your boyfriend and take you time. It does hurt the first time and there is nothing you can do about it. The only way for it to hurt less is be very comfortable and not scared. The more tense you are down there, the harder it will be... Therefore, carefully think it through, you have your entire life to have all the crazy sex you want!
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