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Archived questions from: 10 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

How can I relax my vagina during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - How can I relax my vagina muscles during sex? Sounds weird as most women are looking to tighten their vagina but I want to relax it. And most men want a tight vagina. However, my partner, which I just recently decided to have sex with (after 2 ...

Boyfriend cums too quickly. What can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - My boyfriend and I were about to have sex two days ago and he ejaculated very quickly. It didn't even last much of a minute. We then tried again fifteen minutes later and the same thing happened. The first time we did it he lasted a lot longer. I ...

After sex, my penis hurts and her she has stomach ache. Should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - hi, I feel worried, I'm 15 years old and I have had sex with my girlfriend. I have a problem which I need help with. A couple of hours after I've had sex my penis starts to really hurt and my girlfriend gets a stomach ache. What seems to be the ...

Opinions on not marrying or having children

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I have been hesitating in asking, but ended up asking anyway since I want to know as much opinions as possible concerning this. I grew up in a loving family. I never had any abuse of any sort. Currently in a loving relationship with a man. I ...

Could I be pregnant, or is it just stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - About three weeks ago me and my bf had sex and he wanted to see what it felt like without a condom. So we didn't go all the way but he did go in. Lately I've has extreme nausea, i'm always tired, my boobs are really sensitive, and i pee a lot more ...

Loving sex ..but keeps reverting to my old technique and not satisfying my man. Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I thought I was sexually experienced (2 long term partners) but my new man of 6 months doesn't seem to be able to 'come' when I use my various techniques to play with his penis and balls. I asked him to show me how he enjoys me to play and he plac...

How Old Is Too Old? Age Difference of 38? Is this right or wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Hi Readers, Please giver your opinion on this, Need Your Help/Advice! How Old Is Too Old? I Am 22..He Is 50..38 years difference? Is it ok for us to be together? Thanks. And, Can women have sex whilst on their menstruation? I have heard peopl...

I don't know anything about having sex really. Can anyone help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Okay, I'm 17 about to turn 8 in July. I dated my ex for 4 years and we just broke up in november.. It was really hard on me. I have become depressed and just broken. He hated me for the longest time and didn't talk to me, for reasons.. Well we talk...

Sex related questions. Help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - [Mod note: updated questions:] 7. i want to do sex with my boyfriend..always..but we both should not marry..this was our deal..but now i want him in my life as my life partner..how to tell him... --------- 6. i want my boy friend to do sex with m...

13, wants to stay virgin for a while, but no access to sex toys

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - I want to stay a virgin as long as possible, basically until I get married, but I get way too horny too often and so I masturbate. But lately, I've been having trouble getting off, so does anybody have any new ways than just a standard grip and ...

Straight? Bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Well im really questioning my sexuality right now. I KNOW i like boys but im not sure if i like girls also. Sometimes i have weird day dreams where I'll be fucking a girl and I'm fine with it. And as weird as it sounds I've even imagined doing in...

Any tips on how to bring up the topic of using condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I'm on birth control and he pulls out but am I still running a high risk for pregnancy??? And I was wondering if anybody had some good tips on bringing up the idea of a condom to him...especially because we have been involved sexually many ti...

I need female and male opinions about this, I really need advice, and badly.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I don't wanna write my life story, but here's the deal. I grew up with a single mom who never dated and kept to herself all throughout my childhood. She never wanted to talk to me about guys, and when puberty hit I would try and mention crus...

Now I don't feel the same for him any more. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this terrific guy for over two years and have been holding back the urge to tell him that I loved him for a couple months now. (I was holding it back because he doesn't acknowledge me as a girlfriend because he doesn't believe in ...

Help!!!! How do I talk to my mom about sex and birth control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Here is the whole run down. I am 15 going on 16 my boyfriend is 16. We have been together appox. 9 months. I really really do love him. And I know he loves me. I want to be with him for the rest of my life, we have talked about marriage and ...

Any tips on convincing her I don't wanna marry her just for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 228 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - Hey Everyone, I was hoping someone could help me with an issue I seem to have brought into my relationship. I've been dating my GF for nearly 5 months, when the other month after asking her why we hadn't had sex, she told me that she was waiting ...