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Archived questions from: 13 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Other forms of birth control?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I have been sexually active since I was 15, I am 18 now. I have been on the pill in the past but I have a very hard time remembering to take it. My current b/f and I have sex regularly but neither of us really likes the way condoms feels. I like ...

How do girls masturbate? I'm not really comfortable with sticking stuff in my vagina yet.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and I don't really masturbate. I’m not sure how to. Is that weird? Is that bad? Me and my boyfriend are doing a lot of stuff with hands. This is the first time either of us have gotten this close to another person b...

Pull out and pray!!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Ok I had sex with my girlfriend we only had sex with out a condom for like 3 or 4 minutes then we used one. What's you opinion on the chances of her getting pregnant? Her period was 3 days before this. ...

My husband swore this was the first time he cheated. Do I give him a chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - My partner of 10 years and father of our 2 children,youngest 6months old has been sort of offhand with me for the past few weeks. He came home tonight and blurted out he had been seeing a co-worker for the past few weeks and has finished with her ...

Please enlighten me on BDSM

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has recently told me he's into BDSM. I'm completely open to it, but I've never done anything like it, handcuffs maybe but that's it. When the day comes that we decide to do this, I don't want to look like an idiot ha ha. If anyone c...

G-spot problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I've learnt all about the female G-spot, and my current boyfriend has managed to find it (hooray!), or at least i think he has!! When he touches a certain part, it feels better than anywhere else, which is why i'm assuming it's the g-spot, but ...

No foreplay and no condoms!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - No foreplay and no condoms! I have just started to sleep with my guy - but he seems reluctant to give me any foreplay! Also he says that when we do have sex he doesn't like using condoms!! - I am confused with what to do - as I love him but am unsur...

Why do I hate my boyfriend masturbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - This may be a very unusual query but ANY advice would be helpful! My long-term boyfriend (known each other for 5 years) has a rather strange view on sexual matters. When he gets very depressed (for instance, when we have a big argument), he sees mas...

How can I heat things up? Help

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - my guy and i have been together for 2 years and a half now . we love each other so much have sex almost 3 times a week sometimes more . but i feel that our sex life is starting to be boring , same old same old. we have a little foreplay in the begi...

Ribbed condoms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Do ribbed condoms make a girl "loose"?...

Help...sex problem: it hurts when he goes in

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - i've been with my partner for 2 years now but i have a problem during sex , it hurts so much when he tries to go inside and only part of his penis would go inside . when he tries to finger me with one finger .. it hurts, and i know for sure i'm not ...

Now I'm scared I could be pregnant.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 18, I met him through my friend from school whos dating his best friend (she's 13, he's 17). We've been together 6 months now, and he's never asked for anything sexual at all. My parents have met him and appr...

We broke up after we had a three-some. I felt so disrespected by him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Hi guys, My fiance and I went out last night after having a 3some with another woman the night before (his idea) We went to a bar and he kept reacting around a certain girl who was out. I asked what was wrong as he kept gasping, stopping still a...

My bf is 7 yrs older than me and I know it's illegal for us to date. Is he worth it?? Please read xxx

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - i am currently going out with a 21 year old and im only 13 (he was 20 when we started seeing eachother) the thing is he hasnt pressured me into anything and ive never felt this way before. i know about his past and everything ive spoken 2 his cous...

My period is 1 week early. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Okay iv had sex with my boyfriend a few times now. and i really dont wanna be pregnant. most of the time we use a condom but other times he says he knows when he gonna cum. so he just takes it out of me when he says im cumming. and then he tells me ...

I'm 17 and I'm a sex addict

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - ok im gana get down to the question i love having sex i just do its a part of me but am i over doing it i mean i wana have sex 24/7 im an addict i need a woman's oppinion how do i stop cuz i wana have sex 24/7 with my fiance all the time and im only ...

Is using mirrors during sex fun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Do you use mirrors during sex? How so? Is it a fun experience to have sex in front of a mirror or mirrors? What makes it fun?...

What does it mean when she said "You have a special place in my heart"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - One of my friends (woman) who I've had sex with said to me that I will always have a special place in her heart. She's in her 40's and I'm in my 20's. She said she also cares for me. I'm asking this as I didn't quite know what she meant by this. ...

Should I leave my ex and move on with new lady? What about our son?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I have been together with my girlfriend for about 4 years im 23 and she 22, on and off, throughout the relationship it has not been perfect. A year into the relationship she was pregnant, 6 months after we broke up after constant arguments, she has ...

Pulled out during orgasm and ruined it for me. Was I wrong for getting mad?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I'm not sure I was totally in the wrong in this situation, so please just let me know what you think. Yesterday my boyfriend and I were having sex in the morning and right when I was orgasming, he pulled out and ruined it all for me. It felt like...

14, in love, and both of us are ready for sex. But I'm scared of the pain.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - OK, I don't know what to do... I started a relationship with this guy I've known for years about a month ago. So far, we've only had oral and manual sex. It's clear he wants to go all the way, but he's reassured me that he won't do anything I'm ...

Sex and travel during pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Hi there, my wife is pregnant for about three months. Can we go abroad on August and can we have sex normally or it will make things difficult. Thank You...

He didn't come inside me, but yes, it was penetrative sex. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Hi there, this is a question about the mini-pill Cerazette. I missed taking my pill for 3 consecutive days (weekend break and I forgot to take it with me, argh), then had been taking my pill for 3 days after I got back before having unprotec...

My husband lost interest in sex because I look too supermodel-girly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - For the past 3 weeks my husband's been refusing to have sex with me. Everything I've tried didn't work - sexy lingerie, a romantic night in, massages from me, roleplay, wearing sexy bikinis - it all failed. He just showed no interest at all....

My parents took my mobile phone and now I cannot contact my bf anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 223 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - once when i joined in my college..i was very happy and i got a new brand mobile.and my number unfortunately spread to some gangs of boys..and they started like a good friend and finally they were torturing me saying that they would come in gang and ...

We both love each other but I don't know if I could trust her or him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months. But we broke up last week because we just couldn't handle us fighting all the time. We seemed t be fighting about the same stuff over and over. I was going to school and working too much and ...

Am I wrong to feel this need for our penance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Here’s the story… This happened years ago… So, I met this girl who was a little rebellious at first. She was flunking out of school and what not. I really liked her because she was herself around me. I feel madly in love with her. She was perfect ...

Should I ask her about this other guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - Dear all, I am in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year now, and things are going pretty well. We get along quite well, laugh a lot, and have many things in common. We see there is a future for us. I must say that sex life is rather dull t...

I can't find his soft spots!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

13 April 2009 (?) - Heya! My boyfriend and I are 15, we've been together 3 months, and we do not plan to have sex until we are married. That being said, do you have any advice as to how to really make him go crazy, he's found all my soft spots (in appropriate plac...

My bf takes forever to cum

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - It is really hard to make my bf cum.He can only come if he is on bottom.i need help.Is there anything he can take that will make him come easer...

What's it like the first time you see your boyfriend naked?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Girls respond… I have a good relationship with my bf. What is it like to see your boyfriend naked for the first time? What is it like to have your boyfriend see you naked for the first time? How can it be a good experience? What can be ...

I think I'm addicted to the sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 223 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for four months. The first two, we dated but the last two we decided it was best to be friends with benefits. The problem is, I think I'm addicted to the sex! We meet about once a week for it, and I always stay the nigh...

Can a guy hook up with a girl multile times and have no feelings for her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Can a guy really hook up with a girl multipile times and have no feelings for her what so ever? like is this really true? Ive heard guys can not even care what she looks like and they have no feelings for them?...

No contraceptives yet not pregnant. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I have been sexually active for 4 years now. No protection. I get the worst side effects with condoms, and birth control. They just don't work with me. So my entire 4 years of being sexually active, the "pull out method" as been my safe control. I'...

Any tips for first time beautiful sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in love. We have not done it but will. How can I make our sex good, beautiful, enjoyable, and a wonderful experience for both of us? ...

14 yo virgin and ready for sex with my bf. Mom said OK if I loved him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - im a 14 year old girl and me and boyfriend have been together for about 6 months we get along great and always have fun together we just mess around but no sex every time we talk about it i say that im scared of sex and not ready he says that's fine ...

What are some of the descriptors of making love and having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - How would you define the difference between making love and just having sex? What are some descriptors of each? Does one involve more touching or kissing than the other? Is it the amount of time spent? How would you suggest that I make doing it p...

Should I or shouldn't I, have sex with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I've been contemplating this problem for a few days now, and still haven't come to a conclusion! I spoke to my ex-boyfriend last Wednesday (we don't talk much, he's in the US army) and we started off with the general chat, how everything was g...

Single and loving it! Any ideas to make it better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - I am nineteen. I have been single for four months and four days now and have not had sex in that long. I have recently masturbated for the first time ever (about a month ago) and I have to say, I really enjoy it. But are there any techniques and ...

Help me with better sex for my husband!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - hey,could you help me please!i wanna ask a question but i don't know how to do it,can u help me plz!!! The question is i'm 22yrs and i'm married for 4 yrs,and also have a child its a boy! my question is i just can't give my husband the best "ride" ...