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writes: I've been seeing my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We're really close and love each other intensely. However, even though we've made love countless times, he still hasn't yet had an orgasm. What am I doing wrong?He really gets into sex with me and is really enthusiastic... and often takes control and gets turned on by the amount of pleasure he gives me... but he hasn't had an orgasm yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): I've never heard of such a problem lasting for so long... He should talk to a doctor. Usually it's the opposite problem with guys that age. I agree wit hte other poster - it's not yourt fault.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): if your age is correct 16-17 and my memory serves me well most young men are scared to death of getting someone pregnant.. i dated a man who didn't have an orgasm in like months and would get freaked out by the mere thought of bjs so relax and talk to him... ask him if it feels ok.. and if he likes it when you do this and that... then when the moment is right ask him... if your doing everything right for him your worried its you... if he loves you and you love him he will explain it .. and remember to be tactfull about asking... don't just say... you cant orgasm and its me isn't it.... that will put him on defense mode so just remember to be gentle... and i think all will go well...good luck.
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reader, FLAgirl1113  +, writes (16 April 2009):
Consider that maybe it's not you. It could be him. Possible groin injuries keep some men from ejaculating or keeping an erection. I know it's frustrating. I also know it's something you'd rather avoid having a conversation about, but if you want a resolution, you'll have to bring it up and seek help/guidance.
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