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Archived questions from: 6 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Lost my faith in guys - have I been used?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I've been dating a nice guy for about 7 weeks. Was very romantic, kind and seemed to be very in to me. I went on another date with him again at the weekend - the date went well and I invited him back to mine. We ended up sleeping together. He is the ...

He wants to give me a squirting orgasm, any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - My husband and I would like to spice our sex life up. He wants to learn how to make me have a squirting orgasm any tips?...

Will he contact me? Or do I just forget?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i was seeing this guy for 6 months and I'm crazy about him. he finished with me about a month ago but we kept on sleeping together. this is all over with now but because i was so angry and confused by his actions i got drunk and sent a lot of unfo...

First time sex. Next step?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Okay, heres the story, me and boyfriend of 7 months have decided to sleep together and I am a virgin, he isn't, my question is once you know we have slept together, what do you do, my mate says you should go to the toilet, why? I just thought ...

26 yo and I feel like I am missing out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Some thoughts are very welcome. I am interested in this guy I work with, he leaves in July. He was shown an interest in me for a while but he has made it clear that he only wants a bit of fun nothing serious, we have kissed once unfortunately at...

My bf is making me feel like crap sexually :-(

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of just over one year has been telling me for months that he thinks I am cheating on him because my "p*ssy feels different and stretched out like I have been f*cking n***ers". He has also then become upset with me when I become more ...

Boyfriend wants to watch me with other men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple years. We are crazy about each other. We get along really well and are very open with our communication. We share practically everything. For the past year my boyfriend has become consumed with a fe...

Texting while Sexing?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Yesterday when my friend and I were having sex, he got a text message. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one. We stopped. He answered it. He got another one while I was giving him head. I stopped. He got it, and was answering it, and look...

Will he be freaked out by "down there"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Will my boyfriend be freaked out by my vagina? There is loaadss of hair, i know i can get rid of that, but the rest of it looks disgusting to me.. The inner labia are really dark compared to my skin, and are all shrivelled and wierd:/ Also, on...

I don't want a BJ. How do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - I have a new gf and she wants to give me a blow job but i dont want her to because i think it is to degrading. How do i tell her?...

13 yo and want to have sex with my boyfriend

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i'm thirteen years old and i want to start having sex with my boyfriend( we've been together for 4 months ) but im worried that if we have sex i may bleed on him when i break my hymen. We are obviously going to use a condom but i am scared he will...

Am I pleasing him? How can I tell?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - It's me again... Got another question about me and my friend. He's the first man I ever been with,so there's still things I haven't figured out. I don't know how to really "read" men...well read him anyway. I mean how do I know I'm pleasing him...

How do I tell her how I feel? I love her so much!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - Hello, I love my girlfriend more than anything! (We've been together a year.) She says she had a "bad experience" while back, and hates giving oral. I didn't really mind. She does, however, LOVE for me to give her oral. As of late, she wants me...

Was involved with 2 boys who are cousins. Now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - i was dating two cousins (T and S) when T found out he confronted me and ordered me to choose between the two of them, because i love T, i chose him and end things with S but i did'nt let him(S) know it was over so he kept on telling people that...

Should I tell his girlfriend that I am pregnant by him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I was having sex with a man, for a year, that was and still is in a relationship. I am now 7 months pregnant. He keeps telling his girlfriend that we never slept together, therefore denying my child. The girlfriend asked me and I told her no. Should ...

Parents don't approve of online boyfriend....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I've known a guy online for a couple years, but we've been talking intensively and fallen for each other in the past couple months. In character, he seems to be everything I ever wanted, and I've also seen and heard him online. There is an age diff...

14 yo and wants to know how to masturbate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - I'm 14 and I want to no how to mastervat! please help ...

Is sex the only thing that connects us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 232 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend connected only for sex. after a year my boyfriend get boared. what to do to continue my relationship. ...

She says "Everything is fine" but I have a feeling it's not. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 232 days ago

6 April 2009 (M) - i have been with my girlfriend for over two years now and at the beginning she would want to have sex regularly this then decreased but i wasn't worried i thought that was normal but now we don't have sex for weeks and the worst part is she has neve...

Jealous? Or normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I have bee dating someone for just under a year now and the more I fall for him the more it truly pains me knowing that he has had so many sexual partners. He has not blatantly said as much, but he is gorgeous, with the 100/100 libido and I can do t...

Will he expect more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - This guy and I have been seeing each other for a little over a month. We are both in college, I am 19 and he is 23 and neither of us is a virgin. We havent done anything sexual yet (even thoough he is dying to lol) and Im ready for the next level. I ...

Should I continue on taking the pill after I have been so sick?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 232 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I had sex on a Monday, Tuesday, and the Friday (we don't use condoms but I am on the pill. Problem. I took the pill everyday this week except the Saturday because I forgot. On the Sunday morning I took 2 pills and then 10 hours later I took a...

Is my "well" running dry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 232 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - My friend and I have been sharing relations with each other for almost two years. This is the first man I've ever been sexually involved with. The sex is great, however, my vagina dosen't "show" how it makes me feel. For some reason I don't get wet ...

Did I do something to make him a softy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - I am 28 years old. I lost my virginity almost 2 years ago with a friend I've known for a number of years, and we've met up for occasional sex ever since. I became a member of this site to get some advice. Here's my situation: When we recently ...

I really need affection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - well i really need affection. i am quite desperate for it and i cant get it from my boyfriend. weve talked about and hes not a cuddly type of guy but i really need affection. for example, if some one just hugs me i want to cry because i feel so much ...

Why is sex with my current boyfriend so painful when it wasn't with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

6 April 2009 (F) - right well basically, I'm 16, (17 in 3 weeks) and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months, he's 20, so he's almost 4 years older than me, but that's irrelevant. :) I was 14 when I got my first real boyfriend, and we were together for 14 ...