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Archived questions from: 30 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

About to have my period, but still want to make HIM happy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - This is going to sound weird. But im supposed to be going to my boyfriends tomorrow for the weekend. And i was not expecting my period until the 11th...So i was wonderin.. 1. What ways can i please my boyfriend, while im on my period? 2. (for g...

Could I be pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I am a 19 year old female.I jus want to kno if my boyfriend cum on my belly...and i use the same cloth that he uses and wipe the cum,and i accidently wipe my vagina with the same cloth right after,would i get pregnant? ...

Waiting for marriage for intercourse.. already done everything else will I be disappointed?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years, and it has always been important to us to wait for marriage to have sex. After being together for a little over a year, we started to be sexual. After a while, it got to the point where we ...

I'm still attracted to him I just have no sex drive, and now there is a Sailor involved!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Q1, ok so heres the thing my husband and i have been together 2 years and my sex drive has gone down a lot.... he is lucky if i want to have sex once a month. when we first got together it was like 2 or 3 times a day i dont know what happend i give ...

We only have sex about once a month but I want more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi,iv been with my bf for nearly four years now and living together for 2. I love being with him cos we have loads in commen and everything but he just doesnt get intimate with me much at all anymore,it hurts when we go to bed at night and he wont ...

Is he just using me to get back at his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - My friend didn't talk to me for about a year, when he was having trouble with his relationship he started talking to me again. then he broke up with his girlfriend, 2 weeks later we slept together, and have been ever since, but not in a relationship ...

I feel cheated in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time now. we have struggled with his impotence problem from the very start of our relationship. i want us to have that bond sexually. 95% of the time the sex is not very good. i do what i can to ...

I never climax!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - since i been having sex with my boyfriend and i have never climaxed during or after the intercourse. i only climax or have an orgasm during the foreplay. im a bit worried coz he always reaches his climax and i have to always fake it. is it normal or ...

Self conscious about sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - i am 16 and still virgin. i've had offers from a few guys but never taken them. i am anxious about my first time as i am self consious about my stomach and how i will preform. what should i do????? x...

Thinking of having a three-some!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend are thinking of having a three-some. he of course is the 1 with the idea and im half there for it. i do want to experience it but of course there are reasons that put me off it a bit. i know we need to set boundaries, but does...

Its still early days but I'm worried I'm being used!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about a month now. We have a lot in common, and we have a great time when we're together, which has generally been at weekends. This weekend a friend of his in in town and naturally he's arranging to meet up with ...

Gay man married to a woman....now I want her to sleep with someone else!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

30 April 2009 (M) - Hi, i am a gay man married to my wife for 8 years, we have two kids. I am not very active in sex with my wife, for the past 4 years i had hardly had sex for 5 times. She keeps on insisting me, but i just jerk off when she is asleep on our bed. I ...

It always hurts when he penetrates me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - My problem is that when it's time for my partner to penetrate me it’s very painful and I do not know the cause of this but after trying it finally goes in but it's still hurts. What can we use so stop the pain and easy penetration....

Masturbation: why do I reach my orgasm but I can't come?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - i masturbate maybe like once a week, sometimes i skip a week or so but every time i masturbate, i get to that point where i'm breathing heavy and can't control myself but then i can't come. i reach that climax but nothing ever "squirts" out and i ...

We want to try oral sex, but we're nervous about the consequences

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Ok, My boyfriend and I have been talking about having oral sex lately. We've been going out for almost six months. The desire to have oral sex isn't one sided, we both want to. We're both still reluctant because of the consequences. Should we wait ...

I was raped by my sisters husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Hi am 18 yrs old and just over a year ago I was raped by my sisters husband. One night I was at a party and got drunk (yes I know I am under age and stuff but it happens). Most of my friends were drinking so I called him ( my sisters husband) to ...