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I'm always on the receiving end. What can I do to be the giver too?

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Question - (16 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 April 2009)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my b/f is really good in making out and in bed , he has experience , while me on the other hand i just find myself on the receiving side , he kisses me all over , licks , sucks , plays .. all but i dont know what to do where to kiss him beside the face ..

i feel self conscious cause he had experience that he described as - great back breaking sex - so any suggestions to what to do would be great i dont want to just be receiving , not fair to him or me

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A female reader, love'me  +, writes (16 April 2009):

kissing on the neck is a good start.

putty in your hands babe, ;)

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A male reader, Who United States +, writes (16 April 2009):

Who agony aunt1. Do you want to give more because you want to, or because you think he wants you to do more?

2. Some men like doing all the work, so he may be OK with the way things are with you two now.

3. If you are not OK with things now and want to do more, ask him to gently guide your hands and head to where he wants attention.

Remember, everyone starts out inexperienced. Even you b/f was once just as inexperienced as you are now.

Good luck.

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