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Archived questions from: 5 April, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Haven't had sex in nearly a year..said to let him know when I want him to stay over

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I am sure my b/f still fancies me yet we have not had sex for nearly a year. He said I should let him know when I want him to stay over. I want him to take me out and make it special. It was his birthday last week and I bought concert tickets....

Sleeping with my best friends brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - im sleeping with my best mates brother what shall i do? do you think that i should tell her or not !...

I don't know how to cum during sex, the intense feelings scare me and stress me out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I've been having sex for the past 2 years and as far as I can tell I think I've only came once or twice. The other night he was fingering me and it felt nice for a bit, then it seemed to get a bit intense and I couldn't tell if it was hurting me or ...

How do I turn my sex buddy into my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I'm sort of seeing this guy at the moment, it started out as a 1 night stand back in January but recently we seem to be making a habit of meeting in the pub for a few drinks and then going back to his house. I guess you could call us 'sex buddies'. ...

Did my aunt's boyfriend rape me or did I betray her trust?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Just over 2 months ago I was at a party at my aunt's house. Everyone had left before 1 o'clock in the morning but I was sleeping over. My little cousin was asleep upstairs and my auntie had been drinking so she went to her bed and left me and her ...

Is it weird to stick something in my anus?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - I am a 22 year old male and I have heard that when you masturbate and stick your finger or something up your anus that is acts as a G spot for men. Is this true? And will this hurt my anus or prostate. And can this even cause Prostate Cancer? My ...

Does her grabbing me mean that she wants sex from me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfreind were in the basement on the couch snuggled under a blanket watching a movie... later on she started making out with - I really liked it... but five minutes into the tongue action, she grabbed and felt on my penis.. I kinda ...

Advice needed. Does he love me or is he just wanting to get inside my knickers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I need to know if he really loves me and doesn't just want to get in my pants. After he fingered me and I gave him a hand-job he wants to do a little more. So do you think he really loves me or not. Hope you can help...

Can giving head cause a throat infection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I'm really sick, I have a throat infection and I gave my boyfriend head this week. Is it possible that giving head can cause a throat infection. I know he's clean for std's, but I'm not sure since urine passes through there, it might cause a throat ...

B/f wants to have threesome

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I am currently in a relationship and my boyfriend is 10 years older then I am! So he's experienced a lot! just about every girl that he has been with he has had a threesome.. and it hurts my heart knowing that he wants to bring this type of stuf...

How do I initiate him "going down" on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hey, well I've been with my boyfriend about a year and a half now, and I've had some amazing times with him, at first, I was really uncomfortable about my body, which he respected and didn't rush me into anything, yet because he learned I didn't ...

Do we have to wait 2 more weeks before we find out if she is pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - My gf and I had sex a couple of times without protection in the last couple of days.. i didnt cum in her ...i withdrew and cummed outside...that im sure off... but i know i should have used a condom but now im kinda scared! she is gona take the ...

We are considering a structured open relationship. Good or bad idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years and I just broke up because I can't see him sexually and have no sexual attraction to him. After a few days of being miserable, we talked and he said he was willing to consider a structured open relationship, which is what I ...

Next step: how do I give him a BJ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - ok... well me and my boyfriend we are ready for the next step. he has already fingered me and i have given him a hand-job. we have talked about me giving him a blow job and i need to know how to do it....

19 yo F and feel inexperienced. Do men like hair or no hair down there?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and in a new-ish relationship. We're getting more serious and i really like him a lot, so want to go further sexually with him. I'd like some advice on what to do with my pubic hair. What do you guys prefer? I am afraid to ask him, b...

This is my first time. How do I give a handjob?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Heyy, im 19 and am going to give my boyfriend a hand job for the first time, but im not sure what im doing. I've heard you have to pull back the foreskin, do you have to do this? And also, when you move your hand up and down, do you move the for...

14 yo girl and no access to sex toys.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - hi, my name is B and i'm 14. :) recently i have been very horny and sexual :P i have been playing with myself and fantasizing but it hasn't been getting me off properly :( i was just wondering how i could masturbate and make myself cum? i hav...

Two important questions on contraceptive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5505 days ago

5 April 2009 (?) - hey i was wondering, i have never opened the morning after pill packet, and its two years expired. is it still effective? secondly, how do you know if the condom broke? cause i after the "quickie" i changed underwear and there was white secretio...

How do I find a partner with similar sexual interests?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - Here is a description of my current situation. I am 25 year old male with an almost insatiable sex drive and am very experimental/adventurous (for example, I am into BDSM, fetishes, etc). In my past relationships I felt connected to my partner in ...

If I'm not orgasming what are some ways that I might be able to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hi all! I need some advice,I hope somebody can offer some assistance.My problem is simple,but very aggravating. For some reason,I am unable to reach orgasm through both sex,and oral sex.If I masturbate I have absolutely no problem whatsoever.So I kn...