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Archived questions from: 29 December, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Am I just another "Mr. Nice guy, unfit for girls".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Dear everyone, Wishing you all a merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! This is going to be a bit long, I apologize. Please forgive me if it tests your patience. At the end of typing this I realized I was simply venting out, so probably you ...

I'm having an affair and he ignored me at the bar!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a co-worker for 3 years. I'm separated and he's married and we enjoy each other's company. Recently we met other co-workers at a bar for the holiday. I was there before he was and when he came in he basically ignored me. He walked ...

I need to break up with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i have been in a relationship for a year and a half now, on and off and i want out of it as i feel that he is controlling me. the other week he told me that he didnt like my friends and that he would prefer that i wasn't friends with them, we argue ...

He wants to marry me... but won't leave the wife!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - He is married, says the wife and him are having problems but he cannot leave his wife and he says he wants to marry me. he knows my family but he is too possessive. why?...

What can I do to re-gain her trust and change her mind?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Okay so here is the background: I was with this girl for about a year when we broke up in October 2009, I ended it because I didn't feel the same way about her- I didn't love her anymore. She was absolutely devastated and plummeted into a...

How to talk to a grieving friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, My friend's dad died a couple of months ago and I am seeing her for the first time in a few days. I'm lucky in that I've never had to deal with a death of a loved one so close so I'm not sure what are the best things to say are? I...

Is there any real way to "break through" to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I realized this year that I have probably had a relationship with a sociopath. Although we never got romantically involved, we became "close"--at least from my end. (I have written about her before here, but in short, the reason I say she...

I confessed my sexuality to her and haven't heard from her since, should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - ok. im 17 year old female virgin, i have been questioning my sexuality from a young age, about 11. i dont want to have these thoughts but i dont think anyone ever does really do they? i have been kinda tryin to tell my friend for the past 6 months ...

We love each other,so why aren't we together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hi cupids , I don't even know where to start , it's so complicated ... I met a guy about a year ago , I fell for him pretty quickly and we were hooking up quite alot in the beginning , he was a bit of a player in the beginning and i slowly backed ...

My girlfriend's mother still won't accept our lesbian relationship after five years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I'm a 21 year old woman and have been with my girlfriend for nearly five years now (on and off). She is from a very close family and her mother wont accept us. This means at christmas time for example (when we are both home from uni), that ...

Is he uninterested? Or just shy to go out together alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - So I'll try to make it short. I met a guy at my uni, and instantly we found a lot in common, talked a lot and stuff...I really started to like him, and overall I'm a shy person, but he seems to be pretty reserved too, even though he's kind of ...

What makes a man fall in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Why men fall in love? Is it beauty? Is it intelligence? ...

Is it too soon for two college students to consider marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - hi. i'm 21 and i am kind of confused. i've been with my boyfriend for a year and and a half. he has always been there for me, in the good times and the bad times. i know for sure he loves me for real, and that he would do anything for me. we're both ...

Retrojealousy is killing me, how can I make it stop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I'm 46, my girlfriend is 35, we've been together for about 16 months, we told each other we loved each other after a year, we're both divorced with two children each. We do love each other, early on w did the whole... How many people have you sleep ...

Do you think he feels guilty about being with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My partner and I are both 58. He's widowed 3 years and I'm divorced 11 years.We adore each other.We both have sons in their twenties (all still at home) but he also has a son of 8, a late surprise child.As a result I spend most of my time travelling ...

Will she always be a cheater? How spot and avoid a cheater in future?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I just have a question about an ex. I met this girl through work, we flirted and it was as clear as day she was interested. But things were kind of weird, she was also flirting with two other guys at my work. I ended up leaving for a few weeks and ...

This has gone on too long. How can I get him to ask me out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - This guy and I obviously like each other, because both our group of friends can see it. I've told him many times before that i've liked him and at some point i asked if he liked me. Every time i asked, he said yes, but this whole thing between us i...

Said he adored me. We broke up, so then he scared me when became abusive. Now wants me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Please help i loved someone, he looked cute. i dated him now 2 years together. He says he adores me, but one day we fought so hard, so i decided to break up. He started to scare me, with the msgs. He had he started to shout and say bad words, and ...

Did I lose a good guy by vacillating? And can I trust the other guy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Been dating again - Guy one: European guy Was perfect until we fell out with each other over a derogatory word. Guy two: US guy 2 wants to fly me into Florida and has bought me a flight - now am battling what to do. Been getting to know guy two ...

Is there hope her with this girl? How should I proceed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - hi friends, I am 27 years old ,I am attracted towards a girl who is 21yrs old. She has boyfriend from last 4 years Three months back i some how managed to get her number. I called her, told her I messaged her. But she did not reply, and she told her...

Seeing my ex boyfriend tomorrow. How should I handle it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - [Mod note: What do you mean by "do something stupid"? A little more information on what you want people to stop you from doing might help! Keep smiling and don't let him get to you!] i have an ex boyfriend that broke up with me because i moved no...

I don't feel like I get a fair return in relationships

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Why do I feel this? Let's say everyday I come home from work. I have to cook, clean, and keep my child quiet and inactive. At night I relieve my man (not saying that I don't enjoy sex, I actually very much do.) My man just pretends to help out with ...