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Archived questions from: 20 December, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I was his rebound and two years later still think about him... how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Sorry if this is long but I need some help. About 2 years ago I met a guy who I fell really hard for. He was so different to anyone I'd ever met before and he made me feel like I was the best thing that ever happened to him. He's in the military ...

I am ashamed of my looks...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - I am a 20 year old guy and I am gay. I have always been Dusky which made me feel ugly as I'm usually attracted to fair guys and It always makes me think that a fair guy will never fall in love with me. I started using a skin lighting cream which ...

How do I get my family to toss my fat sister out of the house?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hi. I know this probably sounds stupid asking for help and advice on this question but i have to. as u all know christmas is approaching. my question is how do i get my family to toss my fat sister out of the house. she is crazy and selfish and ...

What's this guy's deal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hello. there is this guy at work who hangs on a lot of women. He is married, sometimes they are too. I recon he may be the touchy feely type, but it bothers me in general... I just think its inappropriate workplace behavior, yet others participate ...

Why did he start to cry when we had sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) - My boyfriend and I had sex yesterday, while we were having sex, he started crying. I asked him Why he was crying but he didn't say anything. I tried to get him to talk about it later but he wouldn't. I don't know what I can do. Help please!!...

"Now that all your money's gone and you have no job and no home I can't use you any more!!!!! "

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - I'm really struggling with this, need help bad !!!!! im thinking of revenge all the time on my ex fiancee i feel im gonna end up in prison i kid you not !!!!! 16 months of my life she took off me, she got everything she asked for off me money, gifts ...

How do I overcome insecurities and fears?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - How do I overcome insecurities and fears? I am scared of pursuing a relationship. I am convinced of that i'll be rejected. It's a combination of many insecurities...

Help her to deal with my past...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hello! I'm new here and looking for some advice. To start, let me fill you in on my past. I am a 23 year old female living in the south. I grew up around a lot of drugs and sex was glorified in my family. I didn't really have any rules at all and ...

A job in a different city - how do people make that transition?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I want to move away from this small town. I recently spent almost the entirety of my savings paying off my medical bills, so I don’t have those to worry about anymore. I have about $1k in the bank now. I’ve never had a job, though not for lack of ...

Should I tell him how sad I am our "friendship" is over or just move on??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hello to anyone who reads this, your time is greatly appreciated. My best friend has broken my heart. For the past 2 years he has lived his own life, studying on the other side of the country. It has been hard staying in each other’s lives, and I al...

Need advice on sexual techniques??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, This might sound a bit weird but here it goes. My boyfriend an I have been together 2 years now, I used to be good at woman on top sex position but now when we do it he takes ages to cum or I can't go fast enough. I thought maybe it...

How can I become friends with her for the right reasons??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hi, so basically I've been in love with this guy that is my ex-bestfriends older brother! When her and I were bestfriends this other girl said stuff about her that wasnt true (which she happens to tell me now) and I got mad at that ex bestfriend an...

Is she out to sabotage my love life??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I have a friend who Ive known since I was 12. Shes one of my bestfriends, love her to death. But lately Ive been feeling a little funny about her. Years ago when I was in highschool, I had a boyfriend. Things were good between us until she came ...

I'm just one of the girls to him, suggestions needed to change that please??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - This will seem reminiscent of highschool drama, which is quite immature for a University student, but I need help from you pro’s. Since you’re on this site and reading this intro, you might as well answer, right? Say yes please. Anyway, here g...

My relationships go nowhere, any secrets to finding a good guy??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I am a 20 year old female that can not find the right guy for anything. i have dated soo many guys and only have had 2 serious relationships that both lasted 2 years. both of those guys left me heartbroken. they both left out of nowhere. this one ...

Baby is on the way, how do I tell him when we have broken up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hiya girls and guys. I recently found out that I'm pregnant. I'm only 17 and the father is 19. We broke up about a month ago but we're still friends. He is unemployed at the moment and still lives with his parents. I'm a student and I was hoping to ...

Is he cheating and am I wrong for wanting more??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I had been out of a 7 year relationship with a previous man of whom would never marry me, but expected to live with me and have children, I was dumb enough to have one. The relationship was over for 7 months. I had met another man one night ou...

Should I tell her now or never, break up with her now or later??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - I've been dating a girl for the past several months. I use the term dating loosely because we haven't had any conversations on boundaries yet or monogamy. That's a problem in itself because she is much more in to me than I am in to her. Don't get me ...

Should I try to keep the relationship going regardless??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) - People in the story : Me (year 9) His ex-gf (year 11) And my boyfriend (year 10) The other girl in this story dated my boyfriend a little while ago. He dumped her because he really didnt like her anymore and then he asked me out a few o...

Does what he said sound genuine to you??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I found out that my ex-boyfriend (mid 30s) was in contact with a Japanese lady (at least 30yo) he hooked up with on a business trip before we became official. He met her on the internet before his trip because he wanted someone to show him around in ...

..Should I just forget about my superstar love??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hey, I'm just another average girl, with just another average life. But my problem is that I'm unconditionally and completely in love with this guy, which is kinda normal. But what's not normal is that now he's a super star and if I named him ...

My comatose husband may never wake up. Should I try and raise his baby alone or abort it?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 December 2010 (?) - Hi, everybody i'm new here so here goes... about 2 months ago my husband and i got in a near fatal car accident. i am ok, just came out with a broken arm, but my husband suffered a serious concussion and he has been in a coma ever since. i'm so ...

I am in good shape,but can't get her attention, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - Why can't I get this girl to like me uber been trying for ages I have a six pack...

Does my sexual openess turn him off? The lack of sex is corroding my love for him....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. Me and my partner have agreed we have a very strong emotional connection and love, but not sexually. At the start of our relationship it was great! He wa really into me and we'd have sex twice in the same moring sometime...

My daughter was taken advantage of by my cousin, how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Our daughter of 18-21yrs recently went to Australia to stay with a cousin of mine, he is a man in his 30's and a devoted Christian (he even took her to church). My husband and I were worried about her going as she has had what seemed to be a late ...

How can I help my boyfriend learn how to love himself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I've been with my boyfriend, "Francis" for 6 months now. I am almost 20 and he is in his mid 20s. I'm a second year university student and he already graduated and is working. For the last few months I have been learning more...

Ouch!! I just saw my half-brother and my step brother making out!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - This story is really akward and amusing, I think. My parents had to leave Friday suddenly because my grandmother is ill and in the hospital. They left me in charge of my half brother, whose 14 and my stepbrother whose 15. After I got home from wo...

The always-in-trouble boyfriend, the lover and pregnant me...help me out of this mess!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Alright ive been with my boyfriend for a year and 6 months,the first year we wer very good i was the happest girl in the world.hes a great guy weve never had any trust issues we are alwas together. after the first year we moved out together that was ...

Getting married in 11 days...but I'm scared and going to miss my family!! How do I deal with it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I am 21 years old and will be getting married in 11 days. I've lived in the same house my entire life and with the exception of my brother moving to Texas, my family has always been around. After the wedding I'm moving to Florida where my fiance has ...

My ex, who I split up with 3 years ago, wants me to be a dad to her baby! How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - I have a friend "Agenol". He moved from our city, to Britain about 2 years ago. Last year, he came back to our city in America for a brief vacation. While here, he "got freaky" with my ex "Daniela". I don't care that they were together; I'm not ...

I love my boyfriend but kissed another guy...what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. However recently I have been having feelings for another guy. I kissed him and find myself thinking about him, but I love my boyfriend. What do I do?...

Love across continents, never met him, my parents are hell bent against him....but I cant seem to give up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We met online January this year, and it started off with a friendship. We shared a lot of things in common and one day he asked me if we could be something more t...

Family expcting too much? Free babysitting vs. New city!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hi ya’ll, so here’s the question. It’s my first winter in my new city and I’ve worked long and hard to get here. I’m not making much money yet and it’s a struggle sometimes but I have a plan and I have a job and that’s saying more than a lot of ...

Upset he hadn't got me anything for Christmas.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4882 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - A week away from Xmas and my partner tells me yesterday he's not got me anything; doesn't know what to get me and has had other things on his mind! Hints for a particular ($10.00) DVD I've been chasing and found have obviously gone unheard... (All ...

Help my girlfriend turned into a different person.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (M) - I apologize for the length of this but I really need some perspective and advice on how to behave with my girlfriend right now: I met and starting dating a girl a little over two years ago and thought I had found the love of my life. She lived ...

What happened to my period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Ok. I'm 17 and sexually active with a long term bf. I used to be on the pill but kept on forgetting to take it and messing it up so i decided i should come of it, wait for my next period to come along so my system could sort itself out and then maby ...

Should I try to clear messy things up after such a long time has past??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - HI at work there was a big ta do with my boss at the time and myself..to this day I see him glancing over at me...he goes hot and cold and I won't deal with the emotional flip flop anymore so I avoid him or at least don't look at him if I have to be ...

Is it alright to go out with married co workers ourside of work??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

20 December 2010 (F) - Hello: Is it un appropriate to go out with the married co workers of the opposite sex after work?? What if they come to parties without their spouses and like you as a person to hang with..is that not good??? I realize a lot of marriages are not ...