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Archived questions from: 12 August, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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I find her irresistibly attractive, more so than anyone else I've ever known, even celebrities.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - I'm having some trouble understanding exactly what I'm experiencing. I recently made friends with a girl whom I used to know at my primary school. I cant really explain why but I find her irresistibly attractive, more so than anyone else I've eve...

Financial, Work Related and Family issues, is having this overwhelming effect on both of us. Any advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hey there dear cupid. I have been with my boyfriend for going on a year now. Here lately things have been rocky between us due to alot of things going on for both of us outside of the relationship. Financial issues, work related issues, and fami...

5 questions for the guys!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hey guys I have got few questions for you. I want this to be answered preferably by men; 1) Why men ask or demand sex whether they are committed to you or not. 2) If a man loves a woman he wants sex and even if he is not in love he still wants s...

Isn't kissing part of it all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Recently met a man -we shared some fun times but we didnt have sex as I didnt feel well (true) when he came to see me I kissed him goodbye on the lips but he didnt like it. However he was prepared to have sex with me-as he kept dropping hints-well ...

Will the plan b work? I'm nervous, but I wouldn't mind having a baby.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - So I had unprotected sex on my most fertile day, and again the next two days, and then I took the morning after pill. I want to know what are the chances of me being pregnant? Will the plan b work? I'm nervous, but I wouldn't mind having a baby....

How do I learn to honour myself enough to make the changes that need to be made, and still remain stable for my children?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - How do I move on with my life when I'm not in love with my common-law husband of 15 years (don't think I ever have been). We have 3 young children together. He has been verbally and physically abusive with me over the years. Even as most rece...

He's 29 year old, non committed guy, who wants to stay with mum and dad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years and its a nightmare, we love eachother but argue alot. Since I have known him he has never tried to talk about a future with me, we have been on holiday twice together. I am 25 still live at home...

Was his decision not to pursue a relationship because our circumstances? Or does he simply just not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I broke up with my ex after 11 years. We had lived together for that time and owned a house together, it was a very serious relationship. Four months later I bumped into an “old flame”. We’d never really “got it together” but over the course o...

This younger girl has a bad reputation. Should I keep seeing her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I am using my sisters account on here, she said its fine. I am a 34 year old man. I always go for older women and have been seeing older women for a few months and just having fun, but one got a bit serious and started being a bunny boiler. I have j...

The first time he penetrated me I never bled, so now I'm scared he's going to think I was faking my virginity.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hi there! I've been with this guy for about a year and everything seems right. I was with him a couple of weeks back and we were discovering each other. He didnt go inside me, but by the time we finished, i was on my way home i was bleeding...

I think handwritten notes are a lost art, I'd love to get one in the mail, instead of a text msg or email, but don't know if this is the right thing to do. How else can I break the ice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - How do I break the ice? To make the summary short: b/f had a rough patch three months ago, I over-reacted to my needs instead of thinking about his, he was very hurt and broke up with me but in the end he was more hurtful to me than I to him. I a...

Out of a relationship into another, right or wrong ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - isit ok to go straight out of a serious relationship into another, personally i feel that theres nothing wrong with it but you must make sure your ready to be into another serious relationship, but id like your opinion please give me your awnsers...

Should I give things up just for him? I will feel compromised either way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I am 36 and met a guy a couple of years ago who is 4 years younger than me. I have been married before and it was the kind of marriage whereby I gave my all and my husband wanted no responsibility - consequently I put a lot of my own life 'on hold' ...

I've met this amazing guy but he is not a great looker-what do I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Okay so my question is this... I am 19, and two weeks ago I have met this guy... He is so amazing. In his personality... I cannot even describe all of his wonderful characteristics...He truly is amazing. Truly. He is talented in music, has nice ...

I really like girls who have hairy arms and it is really difficult to meet women who I can talk to about it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - I was answering a question about girls feeling bad abour having hairy arms, I rememebered that I loved having girlfriends with Hairy arms and it seem that these are the only women I can be aroused by. I know it must sound so strange that something ...

All the ups and downs of a good relationship, but no marriage proposal yet -I'm depressed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - so i feel like a little lost puppy. i have been with my man for a little over a year now and i travelled to another country to be with him. the relationship is good. we have our ups and downs. our arguments here and there but for the most part we ...

We are getting married soon, I am happy but anxious about the wedding etiquette, as I don't know much about it, how do I enjoy my wedding with the qualms I am feeling, I don' t like crowds; or speaking in front of more than six people. please help me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I'm really looking forward to marrying my fiance and feel sure we'll build a good life together and make each other happy. My problem is that when we were first planning the wedding it was a long way off, but now that it's drawing near I'm feeling ...

My first boyfriend and I had a strong emotional connectiont, we parted company. he lives abroad, I have not seen to him in two years, I am now married and love my husband, but I still think about my ex-boyfriend, how do I stop the feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Well... let me make long story short. I met this man in 2006 when he visited my country. It was kind of love at the first sight. I had an emotional feeling for him right after i saw him and i supposed he had the same. A week later, he returned ...

Are there any other couples still using condoms after getting married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - My husband and I are married less than a year and we're still using condoms just to play safe. We've tried without once or twice but are too scared. Just want to know if there are any couples who are still using condoms after getting married. Or...

I was working as a nanny, but was it just bad luck to meet an odd couple like them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Three years ago, I had emotional affair with a married man when I worked for his family as a live-in nanny. I didn't do anything inapropriate even though I was in love with him. It was all about him. He was smitten which putting me in an extremily ...

I can't fulfill my girlfriends needs, and it's bringing my self confidence down. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - well im 16, i need help greatly evrytime i go to have sex with my girlfreind my errection doesnt come iv attempeted 3 times with her. the 1st time, my penis wouldnt come errect. The second i was drunk with her. it would get errect but it hurt her...

We need help, our relationship is getting damaged.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - i need help, my relashionship is getting damage ,it has been 2years of engagement, and from 1st i told my fiance not to have sex till marriage, and he apreciate my idea. but now he reached his limits. And now his health geting damaged and he is ...

I'm stuck between two brothers. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I know this may be a little messed up but I really need some advice!! I'm going crazy!!! I've been friends with this man for about 13yrs. We just recently crossed the line and did some freaky things together. WE ARE NOT OFFICIALLY together, but I fe...

I'm only 14 and my friends's are saying it's uncool to be a virgin, so I'm hoping someone will help me please.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I really like this boy, his names jack, and people keep telling me to ask him out. But im really nervious and i dont know what to do. My friends keep telling me to have sex with him and go on from there, but the thing is im only 14. and im stil...

I have extremely bad lower back pain and stomach aches which I've had for about a week, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I'm quite confused. I'm supposed to be on my period, but the blood is like really light brown and not even blood really and there is hardly any. Should I just count this as my period? I have extremely bad lower back pain and stomach aches whic...

I'm 21 and he's 24. He doesn't let me stay out past 9pm! Talk about Curfew!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I've lived with my boyfriend for 3 years. I'm 21 and hes 24. He doesn't let me stay out past 9pm. He says it NOT a curfew but it really is. He says he'd feel better if he was there with me and my friends. That we can ALL go out together. When I...