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writes:Hey guys I have got few questions for you. I want this to be answered preferably by men;1) Why men ask or demand sex whether they are committed to you or not.2) If a man loves a woman he wants sex and even if he is not in love he still wants sex. So, how do we girls understand weather its love or lust. 3) As am still a virgin and choose to be so till I find a right person and feel ready for it, so if I date a guy how can I find out that he really loves me, worthy enough to give my virginity to him as there are men who are very good at hiding their true intentions.4) Why do get guys get jealous if the girl they are persuing goes out with other guys?5) Even though a guy wants to have sex with a girl but most of the guys will be happy to find a virgin. Why?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 1. It comes naturally, and it is a natural, healthy bodily process. If men (and women) did not enjoy and desire each other, none of us would be here.
2. Lust almost always precedes love, and if all goes well, develops into love.
3. You will know when you are truly loved, and he is undoubtedly years into your future. At your age, you may sometimes "think" you are deeply in love but it will merely be a crush.
4. Men and women are both possessive about what they cherish, or even about what they think they want.
5. Virgins are way overrated, but young people do not understand that until they grow older and more mature, then experience is appreciated. But also see answer to number four.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2008): 1)We are just sexually frustrated, we want more than masterbation
2)Like I said we are horny like 90% of the time, if not, then we can get horny in just seconds.
3)Well really, you will know,get experienced on guys first.
4)Obviously, if a guy pursues a girl and somone else beats him to it, It would be a bit frustrating.
5)Virgins are less experienced, its good for a guy to lead, in my opinion, virgins are annoying.
no hard feeling, guys are just idiot horny dogs, counting myself at times
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 August 2008):
 1) Because we love sex.
2) Good question. Usually a man who is in love will go several extra miles for you, regarding things that matter. I don't mean he will take you to the movies. A better sign would be his being interested in your well-being, helping you make the best out of your chances, respecting you, and the like. Like you said, we're very good at hiding what we really want. Sometimes, however, anyone can see we've fallen for a woman.
3) Another good question. I guess my answer would be "you never really know". You take your chances. I do agree with you that 13-15 years of age is too early to be having sex, whether he really loves you or not.
4) Because we don't like our girls going out with someone else.
5) There are many answers, I guess. For some people, there's the feeling that the girl has never been anybody else's and will be yours and only yours forever. Like no one can take that away from you. And, also, sometimes being a virgin is considered proof that you're a "good" girl. Some men want to feel their children are "his" without doubt. And many other answers, I guess. You're right in saying that it doesn't seem to make much sense to want to sleep with girls and then wanting them to be virgins.
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reader, StudentOfLife +, writes (12 August 2008):
 1. Man are sexualy active at a younger age than woman
2. Ask him
3. Time, guys who want sex will show it early in the relationship. Guys who are in love will wait no matter what.
4. Because even though we're not in a relationship with that girl, it's still kind of "our" property and when we let others know about it, we expect them to respect that and no to try anything on her.
5. The fact that we know for sure she doesn't have STD and she can't compare us even though we're bad. She will also remember us for the rest of her life, you never forget your first time.
Those are personal answers, may very depending on the person of course.
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