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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2006 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Is it normal to have crushes on other people when you're happy in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - I've been completely crazy about this one guy for a year now. We've been going out on and off since December, and i've not really been interested in anyone else since. But over the past week or so i've started developing crushes on some of my new ...

I didn't like him before and I cast him aside. Now I am having huge regrets!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - hi im feeling really guilty and i just cant get over this guy. This guy used to secondary school who really used to to like me but i could never see him in that way i suppose im a perfectionist and kept finding things wrong with him for example he ...

How can I choose a birthday card for my boyfriend? His parents do not know about us, so I don't want to hint at love.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - I have been trying to pick a birthday card for my boyfriend and it is proving difficult. He lives with his parents but hasn’t told them we are together yet because he wants to see how long it takes to suss us out as they have been trying to get us ...

Anyone got any ideas what we can do the weekend to make it special as we have just got back together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 775 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - my guy and me have just got back together after 2 months break. We are spending the weekend together, anyone got any good ideas of nice things to do, since we have just got into old habits of sitting watching tv in the evenings. We cant go out ...

Male Opinion please! Why do men still insist on looking at porn at the risk of a relationship when their partner is more than happy to have sex!?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - Looking mostly for guys opinion. Thank you... I have a problem. I caught my man watching porn and I am very upset. Let me start from beging. 5 years ago, when I started to go with him, our sex life was good. We would watch porn together and to ...

How do I dump my married man ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - okay this is the hard part how do i dump him what will i say will i say ''its not fair on your wife and kids'' or will i say ''i have a boyfrend now'' i dont know how hes going to react!!!im so nervous this is my first time dumping a married ...

She finished with me out of the blue, then her mum called the police, I was arrested for harrasment, I didnt do anything.. please help!!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

5 October 2006 (M) - My ex girlfriend finished with me out of the blue so i called her but he mum got me arrested for harrasment for leaving 7 missed calls. Now i can't talk to her until she talks to me or i get arrested and i know she wont talk to me. I have done ...

I feel like im on the back burner.. How do I deal with it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - I am dating a divorced man with 3 teenagers that live with him. He has a very demanding job and hardly emails me as he's so busy. I feel like I'm on the back burner. How do I deal with this? ...

I knew I would only ever be sex to him, but I have feelings for him, though not in love and want to be his girlfriend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - I am an 18 year old A level student and I have become involved with a 29 year old man. I have been seeing this guy for a while now and we are "bed buddies." Over time I have become attached to him and want us to be more than that. It would make me ...

Ive fallen for a girl young enough to be by daughter! Nothing can come of it, Im married etc..but how do I get her out of my mind ??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

5 October 2006 (M) - I'm an older man who has fallen for a young women with whom I work. I'm married. While my wife was overseas this lady ... young enough to be my daughter ... and I went out for dinner, coffee etc several times. I'm now suffering limerence because of ...

Why am I still thinking of him and getting upset, after he beat me and trashed my flat!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - i had been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he beat me up recently - he cracked 3 ribs and i had to have stitches above my eye. he also trashed my flat. i got out and have moved into new flat, new number and havent seen him since. why am i still ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

5 October 2006 (M) - Me and my Girlfriend have been living together now for almost 3 months and one day she came down to my work with my and the place was completely empty and no one was expected to arrive either, so i wanted to have sex (you kno something exciting keep ...

Did I sleep with him to early ? We are still together, but wonder if he would feel more for me had I waited ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - Hello, I had not slept with a man for five years until recently. After 3 very intense weeks of dating we slept together, do you think this was too soon and that he will think of me as easy? Im quite naive about everything. He made me feel that ...

When you find the right girl, will you always feel like that towards her, dispite dating others ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

5 October 2006 (M) - hi everyone, If you have say your 1,2,3 g/f when you find that right one will you alwayz have feelings for her weather it's your 1st,2nd or 3rd one ...

I lost my best friend and my lover 5 months ago due to illness, Im struggling to let go ... its so hard...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - I don't need relationship advice, but maby friendship advice. I've lost my best friend 5 months ago due to illness. It was very traumatic for me and still is today. I'm not coping well with him not being around anymore, because we used to be lovers, ...

We broke up as hes off to Oz tomorrow!!! Im not going to see him for 2 months and he says see how we feel then!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 638 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - Ok update on my story so far… As ye all already kno my boyf is off to Australia for 2 months 2morro. And the reason I wrote in the first place was that he wanted to break up before goin and I didn’t want that to happen… So the outcome of it a...

I had a strop with my man for no reason, hes in the army, I feel really sad now!! Whats wrong with me ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - my bf is in the army and last night i got in a really big strop with him, i was saying things like i want you to love me as much as i love you, you never make any time for me. i really dont know why i did this but i ended up crying myself to sleep. ...

My online girl says shes loves me, how do I know this is true ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 777 days ago

5 October 2006 (M) - i have met some one online she says she loves me but i dnt know if thts true cause i have bad experience in past and i worry to much cause i love her too i ring her she does not answer or when i try to talk 2 her she talk and thn makes an excuse ...

My friends behaviour is very unsavoury and unfair, I want to tell her, but not to lose her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 760 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - Over 2 yrs ago I left my BF of 13yrs cos I found out he was cheating on me for over 2+yrs. 1yr later my best friend Ruthie (who's married) told me she was seeing another man it's been a year and she's still seeing him, now she's met yet another man ...

He can be thoughtful and loving, but also tells me im in his face! I want to settle down and be in a loving relationship!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 778 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - I have posted here before but my problem has developed and I would really appreciate any advice. I have been with my partner for 2 years. We did live together but he felt that I was in his face too much, did his head in. I had to find somewher...

Decided to break up as he was looking for work overseas.. But I want him back!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 778 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - i have recently split with my boyfriend, who i want back. it was not a usual break up, he's looking for a job overseas and so thought it would be better to do it now rather than later down the line and we have agreed to stay friends, but i want him ...

I find it impossible to break away from him! Hes my best friend but I love him!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - Hi all, sorry this is long. Well I am in love with my best mate, he is amazing he is kind, funny and caring. He knows how I feel about him but has always stated to me that we are just friends not because he is not attracted to me but because he ...

Im to be married this christmas, but I have met someone else!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

5 October 2006 (M) - I am to be married this xmas the unreal thing or im up front more i met another woman and 8mths later we are trying to find peace with ending this relationship we both love each other.i know i shouldve know better but it was like the universe ...

My ex is pregnant, but Im really happy with my now relationship!! What should I do ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 775 days ago

5 October 2006 (M) - My ex is pregnant, but I am in a wonderful relatinship until now. What should I do? Dear Readers, My ex(17) who I (19) was with for about a year is 4 months pregnant from me, but have been in a relationship now for about 4 months too with a ve...

Im marrried but still kept the intimate emails going, hes getting married next month, but I think he has feelings for me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 778 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - Hi I am married for 2 years, before I got married, I had a intimate session with one of the guys, which turned out to be my husband's cousin. Even now I am married, this guy keeps contact via email and we have intimate emails, and whenever we toge...

Ive been having unprotected sex with my Bf since we have been together, do you think I could be pregnant!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 775 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - Since my boyfriend and i have been going out, we've had unprotected sex. Now the thing thats concerning me now is that my monthlys were due on saturday saw my bf and did it sunday, and its thursday, and still hav'nt got them yet. Im 6 days late, and ...

Horrible thoughts about something I did as a kid. Any advice on how to cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

5 October 2006 (F) - Ever since my ex boyfriend i have been getting unwanted sexual thoughts about anyone. I would never ever act on it but i even get them for a kid i babysit who is 1. I think i only get them for him though because when i was 5-7 i got on top of ...