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writes: I've been completely crazy about this one guy for a year now. We've been going out on and off since December, and i've not really been interested in anyone else since. But over the past week or so i've started developing crushes on some of my new guy mates at college. Is it normal to have crushes on other people when you're happy in a relationship?
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reader, helpful girl +, writes (6 October 2006):
it is quite normall some people find it some people dont. but there are different types of crushes sexuall attraction,and some one you find fun to hang around with which makes you think their be fun in a ralationship which isnt always the way. but what ever you do just because you have a crush on some one please don not ruin your ralationship by being with a crush because they always end up crap and before you know it your left with no boyfreind. But if you are happy i know you wont do that. crushes are often known when your in ralationships.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2006): Some people find that this is common for them, and for you I believe this is because you write that your relationship is a happy one,. This gives you the security needed to do something so daring as to have a crush on another person. You might even find (depending on your bf's personality...how secure he himself is), that he won't be upset about it either.
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