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writes: i have recently split with my boyfriend, who i want back. it was not a usual break up, he's looking for a job overseas and so thought it would be better to do it now rather than later down the line and we have agreed to stay friends, but i want him back but don't really know how to go around this. if anyone has any advice i would be most greatful. Reply to this Question
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reader, lil me +, writes (5 October 2006):
i think you should give him a call and tell him u wud like 2 meet up. when he arrives just tell him you've made a huge mistake, tell him that you still love him and that u r willing 2 have a long distance relationship as you feel that even though it would be hard, the feelings you have are strong enough to atleast try it out.tell him that u wud visit him as often as you can. would you be prepared to move abroad with him if he asked? do u fink you are strong enough to have a long distance relationship? do u feel theres enough trust between you both for u both to be happy in the situation?do u fink he still loves you? you need to think all these things through before you try and work things out between you and him. if u decide that you couldnt be in a long distance relationship make sure before he leaves you tell him how much you love him and make sure he knows u'll always be there for him if he needs you. there is no point in him leaving on bad terms as you'll both feel bad. if you do try the long distance thing, atleast if it doesn't work, u know u didn't give up on the relationship, but make sure if you are still 2getha when he goes that he makes an effort to contact you and to come over and see you, aswell as you doing the same. good luck!
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