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writes:I was dating a girl recently and I thought it was going well but then she made excuses to avoid me and as a result we broke up.I'm 23 and I have dated 3 other women. The first broke up and got back together with her ex, the second was not looking for a boyfriend and the third i dumped then this one I don't think is interested. Based on my last date my only conclusion is that I'm either a) Too forward or too reserved as I tried to put my arm around her when we were watching a film on the couch but she didn't move in towards me so either she didn't notice or thought I was being too forward.The opposite happened with my second girlfriend as I think I wasn't forward enough.Why do i never get it right
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): A friend of mine said her husband said to her when they were going out, 'Can I hold your hand?'. If you want to make sure, you could try this. It's also important to watch the body language and if you feel you would find this useful there are lots of sites about it. But watching someone's face and movements, listening to their voice as well as their words, helps a lot.
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 I agree with Aunt Honesty. Every woman is different and has different wants and needs and views on what is too forward and what isn't.
Communication is key. It is the foundation for everything in a relationship. Do what you feel is comfortable if you are completely unsure and don't feel too pressured to get everything right the first time that you try something. I believe that relationships and the different types come with experience and learning from those experiences. So relax. No one gets it right the first time.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 You need to understand that every woman is different and wants different things from a guy, you cant make yourself change in to something a girl wants instead just be yourself and act the way you want to if she doesnt like it then she is not the woman for you.
Putting your arm around her isnt exactly to forward in my eyes. But you need to be able to communicate with a woman in order to know how they feel and what they want so just ask her how she feels talk to her and see what she wants. Being open and honest with each other is the best thing to do.
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