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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:So I joined an online dating site. I guy messaged me and we have been chatting since then. Probably on average of 4 times a week if not more. I didn't see his picture before we started chatting on Skype. We decided to meet after about 2 weeks. The date went well and we have a natural chemistry. We have been chatting since then. I asked him out again and he said yes. I didn't have any ideas in mind but told him i'd let him know. The next week I invited him to a festival and he said he had friends in town (which he did). So we chat often and I really like him but I really am not up to trying a third time. Obviously he knows i want to see him again. My question is: What should I do? I could give up on it but i really like him. I could remain a chat buddy. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Darlie +, writes (15 December 2010):
I wouldnt ask him again, but let him pursue you for another date. That way, you wont have to sit there and wonder if he really likes you as much.
If you dont hear nothing, then take that as your answer because guys will chase what they want, its just instinct.
Good luck!!
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reader, CJH  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Its difficult to see what your problem is here exactly? Lets see, youve met a guy you get on with and also have natural chemistry with? He also seems to like you?
The reason you want to let him slip away is? Good grief girl, go for it, grab this opportunity with both hands and stop letting minor issues get in the way of what could be a fantastic relationship.
Good luck!
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reader, rcn +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Pick a time and see if he's available. If not then, make your decision on if you're going to give up on him or not.
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