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writes:Ok, my girlfriend gets mad when i cant get off when she is on top or giving me head? It gets to the point where when she feels like she is done, she just quits and goes to bed leaving me hanging. i dont know if she thinks that she dosent turn me on.. or what? she does turn me on and she gives awesome head. i think that i would eventually be able to cum with some time. how can i tell her that she is doing a great job and to keep it going until i cum? she says im a dumbass and all kinds of other things because of it. we will always fool around with her on top and in control, but when i am ready to cum i always have to be in control. is there something wrong with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, smiliek  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 There's nothing wrong with you. Its a different simulation when the girls on top or giving a bj. Used to take me ages with my hubby too but we kept doing new things (when i was on top) and now i can get him as quick as any other position. Everyone's different, try getting her to go at different speeds, use her hand and mouth together etc etc. And talk! She has no right to call you a dumbass, thats horrid
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 December 2010):
No, there's nothing wrong with you. But perhaps there is a problem with the choice you made in your girlfriend. I wouldn't stand for any woman calling me a dumbass because I couldn't cum. I'd just get rid of her. She's treating you badly, and you're taking it. That probably adds to the pressure that's already there.
Just for God's sake stand up for yourself. She's treating you like crap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): No, there's nothing wrong with you but you need to talk to her about it.
Maybe ask her if she'd like to try new positions etc.. You're going to need better communication to make her see your point of view.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): Nothing wrong with you, just to much tension during sex between the two of you.
Slow down, get to know each other, both should be patient, and both should be understanding.
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