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writes:I like this guy but my parnets don't agree with me . I had a 9 mouth old baby he treats him good n me too. What can I do so my parnets can accpet him so I can be his girlfriend Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): Ask your parents what it is they don't like about him and then try to think objectively whether they are right. When you are emotionally involved with someone it is harder to see the reality.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (15 December 2010):
 OKay, I'm gonna need a little bit more detail than that. Why don't your parents' like him? What are the specific reasons they don't like him?
How good is he to you and your baby (congrats by the way)? What does he do for the two of you that makes him good for you both? Parents have a higher intuition most of the time so I would sit down and talk to them.
You're all adults. You have a child, you're a mother and as an adult with a child of your own I think it should be up to you who you are with and not up to your parents. I understand wanting your parents support in who you date, but ultimately it's going to be up to you.
Specifically, why don't your parents agree with you on him?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Sit down and talk to your parents and ask them what it is they dont like about him, let them explain to you what exactly is wrong with him and why they dont want to be with you. You dont state what the reasons are in your question so therefore it is hard to give good advice.
But talking about problems are always the best thing to do so this is what you need to do with your parents. Explain to them why you like him and what he does for you, how good he is to you and your baby and how he will make you happy.
Goodluck.
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