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writes:Ok the girl I like has a boyfriend. They have broken up and got back together a couple of times. When they are together tough I feel like she is always anoied with him. They are currently together at the moment. I am friends with her right now but I want her to be my girlfriend. I dont talk to her too much beacuse its hard with her having a boyfriend. I am a reel funny guy and I make her laugh all the time. I am also more athletic than him and I think I am better looking than him. I need help. How do I make her my girlfriend even though she has a boyfriend.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 I suggest you just stay friends with her for now, maybe flirt a little but not overly much. Respect that she has a boyfriend and she'll think of you as a good honest boy. Then next time they split up you could try to hang out with her more. Once you are sure she's completely over her ex you can ask her out on a date.
But make sure she's not on a usual swing in and out of the same old relationship, she needs to be completely through with her now boyfriend for anything new to work out or else you might find yourself cheated on, or that she goes back to her ex. So take your time with this.
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reader, Abbzndthighz  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 WOW :) You have no idea how much that reminds me of what happened with me, my ex and my other ex. I think you should tell her you like her and that you want to go out. Maybe she is scared that if she and her boyfriend break up FOR SURE that she will be alone... I know I felt the same way... So maybe you should just take a chance and see what happens? Maybe she might like you too :)
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