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writes:I need some straight up advice. I'm 19 and I met this guy, hes 22, (I think age sometimes makes a difference) In the beginning of November, and we exchanged numbers. For the first week we texted and talked non stop and we would be on the phone until 4 or 5 in the morning, we decided to hang out about a week after we met and we kissed. No major making out just kissed it was nice then about 3 or 4 days later we hung out again but we didn't kiss I didn't try to kiss him and he didn't try to kiss me when we had to leave we just hugged and ever since things have slowed down we don't text as much or talk but when i go days without contacting him he gets "hurt" and thinks i dont want to talk to him anymore but he never trys to call me or text me. I just cant tell with this guy, he sort of sends mixed signals so how can I tell if he wants something with me for real and not just playing a game? I'm open to any answers but I think this question is more for the guys out there, I appreciate any advice you can give.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): There is a good saying 'if he likes you, you'll know - if you are confused, he doesn't'. Very often that holds true I think. Why should you do the contacting? Stop, and if he doesn't text you then let it go. It takes two. Sounds as if he is luke warm here. Give up on him. You never know he may then come running, just don't bank on it.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Well i always say be open and honest to someone if you want answers, therefore this is what you should do. Ask him what exactly does he want with you. Just get straight to the point.
To me it does sound like he is interested in you, but he wants you to do all the running and make all the effort which is not fair he should be meeting you half way and trying to get more communication across.
It could be a case that he never kissed you second time around because he is a little shy or maybe he felt that you werent interested. Someone has to make the first step here to see were they stand therefore i think you should just take the biscuit give him a call or a text message and ask him what he wants with you.
Goodluck.
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