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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now but I always get mad at him like every day!! He tells me you need to stop tripping before I leave you I trip because he always prefers other people than to see me and it gets me soo mad! I love him with all my heart and I do wanna marry him. Can someone please help me? What can I do to NOT get mad or not to loose him :( thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, HoneyMe  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Your spending too much time with your boyfriend where now it has turned into being together and not having your own lives. You don't need to be together because if you love each then trust should be there 100%. I would consider sitting down and speaking to him and asking him his feelings. I don't think he wants to see other people because he wants to be away from you. I think he feels he needs his 'ME' time where he can do without you. && you need to start adapting to being by yourself too when he wants to see his friends etc. Meet old friends, Have more time with family or friends. Do things that will mmake you happy but at the same time keep your mind of your bf. If you carry on being like a possessed gf then you'll sadly push him away. && then you will just punish yourself with 'i shoulda,coulda & woulda done that.'' Give him space honey, Take care xxx
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reader, sunandstars +, writes (15 December 2010):
Perhaps you are spending too much time with your boyfriend, sometimes if you're with someone too much you find you have nothing left to talk about so you end up arguing, I find this happens sometimes. So perhaps you shouldn't spend quite as much time together, just have a little 'me time'. Also, I believe that if couples can't get through arguments and anger then they are not really in love, because true love is when you can see through the bad to the positive, so maybe he isn't the one for you? This is probably unlikely though, I imagine what I first mentioned is the problem.
Hope this helps,
sunandstars
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reader, sweetiebabes  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 It seems to me like you are needy and clingy, DON'T. If you are you will lose him.
Have your own pleasure and passion for yourself, try to focus like know what you want to do with your life and not just think why your boyfriend is not with you. If you are focused on some other things, you will not sound too much clingy and needy and most likely if you are busy, you will be unavailable at times to be with him and he will wonder...this is the thrill in the relationship.
If you are hurt because he spends more time with his friends, tell him what you don't like and make him understand how you feel, don't nag. You both need to compromise and you can talk about it and agree. He will respect you for voicing out if there is something you don't like.
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