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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm gonna try to make this short and sweet. I met this guy almost two years ago through a friend. We get along great, have a lot in common, etc. We've been texting on and off since we met, which isn't *too* often. I really enjoy conversations with him. We've hung a few times and there... But the thing is, usually when we hung out he would try to take things further sexually. And lately after a few hours of strictly friendly texting, he'll invite me over to his place. And I'm pretty sure I know what his intentions are when he invites me over...No, I'm complaining because I want a relationship or anything. What I want is to be better friends with him. Is it possible for me to try and be better friends with him without him thinking I'm trying to turn it into something serious?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): The answer is "no". He's trying to get into your pants, and that's what all this is.
If you want to be "better friends" with him, it must stay exactly that, "friends and no sex", but that doesn't mean he will not keep trying or thinking he has a chance to bed you.
If you have sex with him, you can probably kiss the friendship aspect goodbye unless you develop a long term relationship with marriage and all that stuff.
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