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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid.this boy ive been crushing on is not what i suspected , when he with his friends he gets high, smokes and drinks but when im with him myself and his friends aren't around i dont beileve the stuff , i know when he leaves for collage im just going to get hurt and im hurt right now , is there anything i can to try and get over him , i really like him and i dont no why but also i dont want to lose him ....
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (16 December 2010):
 Like DrPsych says, crushes and loves come and go.
I don't want you thinking that what you feel isn't significant or isn't real, but it will heal over eventually. You will move on!!
Get out with other friends and start distancing yourself so you get used to the space. Good luck, sweet! I swear, another fella will come along who you like just as much (who might not come with the added baggage?). :o)
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (15 December 2010):
 It is pretty normal to have crushes on boys at your age. The fact is that this boy has a lifestyle you don't seem to like. This means any relationship wouldn't last. You say that he is leaving college, and when that happens it gives you an opportunity to forget about him for good.
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