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writes:I have this best friend and I love her like a sister, but I feel that every time we go out somewhere together she gets all the attention and guys never even notice me. I know I'm not unattractive, or anything, but she's really pretty and guys are always all over her. I also feel like any guy friends I seem to make immediately fall in love with her and talk to her and forget about me. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Is there anything I can do to overcome it because I feel like it's getting worst and worst and that I'll never be able to talk to anyone if they all begin to drop me for her.
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Does she dress very skimpy when you guys go out? I had the same thing happen with me and my best friend. YOu need to become comfortable with yourself and have some self confidence.
Try new things that you haven't done before, ever. Thats a real confidence booster. Be blunt with the guys that you are talking to, you said they were guy "friends" did you want them as friends or something more? Be noticed. Stand out. Are you going to spend forever standing in her shadow? And it is normal for you to feel like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): Dont let this shoot ur confidence miss. I would try going out by yourself and getting comfortable that way and just minglin'. Who says you need to be around competition anyway when going out? Id bring it up nicely and perhaps tell her of the issue and she may think your jealous but it sounds more like a confidence thing. Im a guy to be very honest who hates going after high profile women like ur friend cause, well, cause guys are all over her. If I want frosting with my duncan hines, I dont want various sprinkles on top of it haha.
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