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writes:hi there! i have a problem with this guy who two months ago broke up with his girlfriend. the thing is that i was with with him for three months before that(our break up was a mutual agreement) girl (he was with her for 10 months) and i saw him about two weeks ago and he asked me out. he said that when he saw me he got all the good feelings back of when we were together. he also said that his breakup with his ex had been rather bad. however three days later after he asks me out he says that he saw his ex and that he felt all the good things he used to feel when he was with her and that he is confused. my questio is: how do i make him choose me over her? i mean i am sure that we have a much more direct comunication than he had with her becuase even when he was with her he'd still flirt with me, and i really hate wating for a response, even though i did tell him to think it over carefully, but i don't know if she even likes him back. i would really like to know how he feels.
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reader, Auntflorence  +, writes (15 September 2009):
Well do not be too pushy. It leads to the worse. Maybe be more free, just look at the good things and keep your head held high. Maybe you ought to forget about him and move on to someone else?
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (15 September 2009):
 You didn't ask how to be happy. You asked how to get your ex to choose you over his other ex.I'm not sure if you think we can answer that by saying buy a certain type of lipstick that works for all of us when we are in that predicament, or something else of that nature. As we don't know him, we can't help.I CAN say that the path you are headed towards will lead to unhappiness. Let me know if you wish to change your question to "How do I become happy?"Good luck.
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