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Does he still like or is he just using me as arm candy?

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Question - (15 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So all summer me and this guy have been talking nonstop and we knew we liked eachother so we started dating....about a week later he broke up with me and said things were moving too fast (even though all we did was kiss and i was definately NOT being protective or anything). I later found out that he had been drinking with some friends the night he asked me out (which was over the phone).

so we have still been talking and the other day when we hung out he still leaned in for a kiss. He still claims to like me alot and when we were with his friends he seemed really protective of me wanting to hold my hand, my waste, and a couple pecks that basically told them to "stay away."

So my question is.... Does he still like me or is he just trying to use me? I'm not sure if he is trying to keep me to himself while not being completely "attached".

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A female reader, melanie0083 United States +, writes (15 September 2009):

melanie0083 agony auntbut why would he "break-up" with you b/c things were "moving fast"? why wouldn't he just tell you that y'all needed to slow down? his reason doesn't make any sense?

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A female reader, sunnycomet Canada +, writes (15 September 2009):

sunnycomet agony auntHe sounds like he is confused and is commitment shy. I don't think he is using you but at the same time I wouldn't stick around waiting for him to make up his mind.

Tell him how you feel about him, what you want, and everything you are thinking. If he doesn't want the same things you want then move on. Start dating other people and enjoy life.

Good Luck!

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