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writes:I'm 16, my boyfriend is 18, we have been together for 2 years and the condom split 2 weeks ago, my period is due in 9 days,I have;headachescramping but no bleedingnauseamore clear discharge than normal (no smell or irritation)mood swingsovarys hurtI had watery blood in my underwear once a week agoand about an hour ago I had a spotting of blood in a watery dishcharge, again no smell or irritaion, the spotting was followed by another watery dischargeI am too scared to go to the doctors! or to buy a pregnancy test!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2009): hi... do not be scared, i have just found out i am pergnant myself, buy tht pergnancy test... or go to hospital and find out from them its really not bad... i was scared and nervous but i took my friend with me... i felt ashamed when i found out and i dont have any family support... so my friend was all i had, you will feel alot better when you get your answers.
i had old and flu symtoms... no spotting.... feeling sick everyday and most of the time being sick.. headache, cramp, tiredness, loss of appetite, generally not well, so there are many signs of being pregnant, see your gp that is teh best thing, they will take a urine sample and dip a pregnancy test in there if you dont want to do it, and then the results are with you in 5 minutes... hope this helps xox
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reader, ffogalilly  +, writes (16 September 2009):
I am not a doctor, but I had some of those symptoms when I found out that I was pregnant. I had cramps, but no blood, I was moody and irritable, but I was so hungry all the time, plus I had to pee. I did not have nausea, and very sore breasts. I don't know what the blood could be, unless its implantation bleeding. But you need to go see your doctor anyway, some of those symptoms don't sound normal. You should've told your boyfriend to go out and buy plan b for you since he's 18 just in case. If you turn out not to be pregnant, get on the pill and keep using condoms.
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (16 September 2009):
 Tisha-1 spent a lot of time giving you realistic, kind and wise advice.I will add that while I am not a doctor, 2 weeks is generally too early to find any hormonal changes occurring within the body. Since your period is not due for nine days, it's impossible to know for sure unless you are tested.Until you buy the test, you are probably fine.DISCLAIMER: All people are different and I am not a doctor. When I was pregnant, I was a full grown woman and a teenager's body may react differently.Good luck.
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reader, SiobhanKay93 +, writes (16 September 2009):
SiobhanKay93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy mum passed away when i was 13, and honestly? me and my dad are so distant :(.
i will end up buying a pregnancy test, just would like some insight first,
thankyou :) x
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (15 September 2009):
 Sweetie, we can't tell you if you are pregnant. You have to work up the nerve to go take the pregnancy test. What are your choices? Think this through logically.
A. You can wait, and be afraid and sit there and worry worry worry worry. Eventually you will either get your period or you will start to show that you are pregnant.
B. You can pop out to the chemist, buy a pregnancy test kit, take it home, read the instructions, follow them very carefully, and then know whether or not you are pregnant. THEN you can start to worry. I mean, what if you're not? What if you are working yourself into a state for no reason?
You weren't too scared to have sex, right? Well, this is what can happen. If you are mature enough to have sex, then you are mature enough to handle the consequences. You're going to have to try to be brave.
If you are really stuck and don't know what to do, why not tell your mum or dad and just get that over with. They will be angry, no doubt, but they love you and will want to help you. The sense of relief you will feel, just knowing that they know and that you are not all alone in this, will be worth all the hurt and upset.
Another thought is that you get HIM to go buy the test for you. He can do that, if he is having sex, HE has to face the consequences as well.
You really don't have any choice, eventually, you will have to figure it out. Sorry you have to go through this, but remember that you are not the only girl this has happened to and other girls have managed to get through this. Be brave and ask for help.
Good luck, I hope everything works out for the best!
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