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writes:There's a team-mate I've worked with in college. Known him about 3 months already. As far as college groups go, people just meet to talk about schoolwork, or joke about random stuff. And mostly people aren't very close cause there's no time. We just get together for work and then go off and do our own stuff.But my friend seems to want to meet up pretty often. And in the group, he seems to single me out to talk alot. Like an question he can ask anyone actually. Or when we laugh about something, he'd look at me. And it seems like he's quite comfy telling me (and the group) about himself. Like his plans, hobbies etc.I dont know whether he talks about himself so much to other people, though I tend to just hear him joking around with his other friends. Not sure though. He's very religious and outgoing, really friendly but not a flirt. But tends to be really subdued when we are just alone together. All throughout the term, I've caught him looking/gazing at me in class, plus he can hold prolonged eye contact with me and doesn't seem to mind random physical contact. Guys don't keep talking about themselves to people they aren't that close to right? So is he trying to build up a further friendship with me or something?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, when i read your answers i realise your really insightful =)sorry if i sounded like pissed off. Anyway aren't you guys really NOT as complicated as us? haha i always thought the masculine gender was always complicated. and what did u mean by: If 'our station in life is reasonably comfortable it takes a lot to risk unpleasantness expanding our horizon'? You mean that if your content with ur life right now, you wouldnt go the extra distance to do something? And what do you mean by I am "pre-approved"? haha sorry. And your right, hes unattached. though I'm kinda wondering why hasnt he made a "big move", you know like ask me out or sth. hmm. i know college is bz and all that, so we rarely talk online as well. i just dont want to bother him, and i have no idea how to ask him out. =/
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk I know how narcissists behave like cause i once dated someone who was one. this current dude is NOTHING at all like a narcissist and it's really hilarious and far-fetched to even think he's one. and there's nothing about his behaviour i find 'out of place'. besides if he's a 'narcissist' i would have known it a long time ago. These people are not that difficult to spot cause they always want to stand out from the others. thanks for the input though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwhat kind of an answer is this?
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