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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I meet this lad a few month's ago on a night out, we exchanged numbers and that was it, He was texting me for a while after but I started to back off as I had just come out of a realationship and he was getting a little too serious for me, telling me I was the one, bearing in mind he had only met me once. We stopped texting but I still saw him out on a few occasions, we were always civil with each other.A couple of month's later I started to regret my decision, I think this was because I was finally over my ex and was ready to move on, Well about 2 weeks later I saw this lad out in town and we got talking and I ended up back at his place and one thing turned into another, 2 days later he text me saying do you want to meet me tommorow? I agreed and he said he would text. He never did, However that weekend he text me saying do you want to meet up? I went to a club to meet him and we got on really well but I didn't go back to his as I was with my friends on a night out. He text me the next day and we were going to meet but didn't, as I was really ill, but I have not heard anything since.My friend said that she seen him with another girl on the last night I spoke to him, But we got on really well so I don't see what's going on, Was he just using me!!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 March 2009):
You had your fun together, but maybe he just decided the history and the feelings of being rejected were too much.
Or maybe he's a psychotic murderer and you had a lucky escape.
Either way, he's hardly the man of your dreams. He was just one guy who you got on with.
Take it as fate telling you this guy is not boyfriend material and move on. There are a million guys who you will get on with, who will not stand you up or tell you they are in love with you through text messages.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Mr Me  +, writes (25 March 2009):
 He sounds like a player. I would let it pass. You don't sound like you are really heavily into this guy and this guy is just playing the field. In my opinion, it's not worth your time and you should try to find someone who's more open to committing.
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