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I love my teacher and I think she loves me back :)

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Question - (25 March 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 19 April 2009)
A female Australia age 30-35, *oxic-doom writes:

im 16 and shes 27.lets call her lizzy.

shes my chef course teacher.

lizzy calls me pretty and she gave me a flower 2day :)

she touches my thigh and my shoulders. winks at me all the time and smirks a lot at me and shes always offering to help me but she really dislikes helping any one elce. she offers me a ride home every afternoon even though she knows that my mum picks me up. i zone out a lot when im around her and and i don't when im not around her.

PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!

love toxic-doom

xox

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009):

I love my teacher, and I think she loves me, but in a more motherly fashion which completely disregards any future relationship. However, the friendship seems to be strong.

I can't really tell you what exactly is going on between you and your teacher because you all are both females, but if that was happening to me, I'd totally think she was making a move.

If you are indeed a lesbian, take a stab at trying to form a relationship AFTER you graduate. If not, tell her to lay low because you are afraid someone might think something is going on, and you care for her well-being and don't want her to lose her job.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2009):

im just like u im 16 and im in love with my female teacher my teacher touches my thigh and hugs me at times. but i think u should tell her how u feel and see if she loves u back im ganna try that one day when im sure im ready. but u go for it ! xx

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2009):

k_c100 agony auntYou must understand that as your teacher, she is leagally not allowed to start a relationship with you otherwise she will lose her job and never be able to work as a teacher again - you dont want to destroy her career now do you?

I understand you may really like her but you need to understand this is just a crush, and you are probably reading too much into the attention she is showing you. This relationship will never work - do you know if she is a lesbian? She could already be in a relationship, there are so many things that will stand in your way here.

The best thing to do is put this down as a crush and move on, she doesnt love you and cant be with you therefore you have no future. Focus your energies on your school work and hanging out with your friends, and you will soon forget about this little crush.

I hope this helps and good luck!

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A female reader, francy Namibia +, writes (25 March 2009):

baby boy i think your teacher loves you back but that does not mean she want to go out with you.by that i mean dating with you. do not just jump to conclusions though she expressed some interest in you. besides she is your teacher and assuming she has a boyfriend already or married i do not think she would want to date a school guy who is a way younger than her for that matter.. try asking her if she feels something for you by then you can confirm. gud luck

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A male reader, Jason means Healer United Kingdom +, writes (25 March 2009):

Yow! That's a little bit of an infatuation.

Mmm; from her perspective doubtless you are her little flower.

I'm not altogether sure what the consent age is but you understand this lady is in a position of responsibility over you and shouldn't even really be touching your thigh.

That being said, you could enquire after whether she thought you could still be friends after she left or you changed schools for example because there's no other way.

Age gaps are more varied depending on where you live.

But lets just say the possibility of something being permittable to happen SOMETIME is not improbably or impossible.

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