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writes:Ok so i have a girlfriend that i am truly in love withanyway we were talking and sex thing came up..i am 16 and shes 14 it even might be illegal but anyway we dont live in usa and i never heard any law that says that hereanyway..My girl asked me if i wanted to do it with heri said yes..but now i have second thoughts about iti mean i love her but i think shes still young and not ready..she says she is..shes a virgin..and am not..ive done it once..but i dont know i think she might regret it later..i told her how i feel and she thinks that something is wrong with her..what can i do?id like to do it with her..but i care about her and i dont want her to regret it..virginity is nothin to play with.am i right or wrong... ? Reply to this Question
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reader, mama2be  +, writes (26 March 2009):
i lost my virginity at 13 and i regret it so much, i wish i was still a virgin.... just try talking to her some more, if anything at all tell her you arent ready....
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (26 March 2009):
You're for sure, not wrong! She might regret it later. If she thinks something is wrong with her since you don't want her to regret it, talk to her and let her know that you do love her, and care about her(Even telling her she is beautiful might help also) and tell her that you really think she should wait until she's a little older.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): YOU ARE RIGHT! She is young so she will probaly regret it later...
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): star thanks for taking time and helping me out..oh and thanks for the great article too..
-Chris
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): you are very right! and can have a gold star for it.
its very easy to be swept away on a tide of lust - but really control it, you will be the better person for it.
please see Satindesire's brilliant article:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/thinking-about-losing-your-virginity.html
its puts it so muchin perspective and a lot of tips...
Star.x.
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