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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My ex and I broke up a couple months ago,He dumped me because he said he wasn't over an ex and needed time to recover, so he could come back to me when he was ready. I thought I was going to be okay, But I ended up feeling so desperate for him and at first I thought I could be friends with him, but I ended up wanting to break off the relationship completely. But everytime I tried this, He literally wouldn't let me. He makes it clear sometimes that he doesn't want me, but then butters me up the next day with compliments and suggestions. And, now he hangs out with MY friends which he never used to, so I see him alot. Rumours always go around saying he likes 3 or 4 different girls at a time. We have REALLY disturbing simularities, And he can basically read me like a book, If one of us hasn't had contacted the other in like 3 days, one of us ends up talking to the other, or fate mysteriously finds a way to end up seeing each other. I'm just wondering am I overexaggerating or is this actually as confusing as it sounds...?and could someone tell me their opinion on this topic..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): sounds like hes holding you on a string for whenever he wants a tugg. if he likes other people why on earth girl are you waiting around?
He isn't defo into you guys or people like that just are not worth your time or tears. wanting , needing and love is not love when it's just one person.
so get on with things accept friendship and stop letting him walk all over you. make it clear you won't wait. you play second to no one , hear me? no one.
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