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writes:hi everyonei am sort of worried about my boyfriend of 1 year.is it normal for guys to keep adding girls (they don't even know at all) on their facebook list?is it like one of those "cool" wannabe things or what?its really getting on my nerves now,and I don't want to confront him about it before thinking of what I am doing..i mean, its pretty weird that also all those girls are really gorgeous.he is being perfectly normal and attentive,talking to me,and calling and texting, planning surprise dates and going on normal ones,inviting me over for dinner with his parents and family, and meeting my friends, telling me he loves me,-everything is normal but this I have been noticing lately..please would you all help me out?i don't want to sound paranoid,but do I not need to worry about this
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reader, Jason means Healer  +, writes (25 March 2009):
You know? Of late, I've obtained a great laugh lazoring and being lazored over any quirk, such as this is.In short, turn it into a joke.How much you can get away with, only you know; "Mr. popular over there..."And of course, stay true to riddling philosophy; never let off the pressure, and pummel his conscience, go on; you know you want to...
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reader, rcn +, writes (25 March 2009):
 I wouldn't worry about it either. If he's being attentive to your needs, it must not be a big deal to him either. I don't know what his back ground is, but as a musician, I receive a few requests, but equally from women, men, and other musicians. I have my front page with all my close friends and family, then everyone else. I do keep communication with everyone, rotating and wishing a good week, but that's the extent.
As long as he's not personally showing abnormal behavior, his friends list wouldn't be something to worry about. Remember this, while the girls on his page may be "georgous", who is he doing "he is being perfectly normal and attentive,talking to me,and calling and texting, planning surprise dates and going on normal ones,inviting me over for dinner with his parents and family, and meeting my friends, telling me he loves me,-" for?
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reader, tux +, writes (25 March 2009):
 I wouldn't be too paranoid about this,.. People love to feel like they have a lot of friends even though they aren't really friends but people who joined their network. People on these social networks tend to play the game of who has the most friends that they never talk to and probably never talk to them besides thanking them for the add..
On another note, I wouldn't worry too much about these gorgeous girls... They are most likely fake and men.. or just girls who don't look that gorgeous in real life.
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