A
male
age
36-40,
*cratchFrog
writes: My girlfriend and I have been dating almost a year, and we have been sexually active, beginning with us losing our virginities together, a great deal of that time with no problems. However, during the course of the relationship I have noticed in myself a somewhat considerable increase in genital size. At first this would seem wonderful, as it pleases her and makes things more fun and easy on my part, it has been causing some problems. Her body has a tendency to reform back to almost original tightness given any more time than a week without sex, and because we cannot see each other more than about twice a week during the school year due to a moderate distance problem we cannot participate in coitus regularly enough to avoid this. Though the sex is not bad, it always must begin very very slowly, and after she climaxes should we decide to switch positions she is worn out, burning, or rapidly losing wetness. I was wondering if lubrication would solve all of our problems until it could be more regular, or if there are other alternative solutions?Thank you so much. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2009): I'm married and we use lube all the time! It does make sex easier and much more enjoyable for the woman! (and maybe for the man, i dunno, lol) She will not swell or burn anymore if you use lube. I definitely would do something or she will start to hate sex! It does not feel good when your croch swells up and burns like fire!! Anyway, I recommend a lube that's first ingredient is water (KY Jelly is good) b/c lots of women will get yeast infections or other reactions to lubes that are not water based and you DON'T want that happening to her! Good luck! :)
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